Valeyard

Ditto, except that I look for bodybuilders willing to kiss as well (nothing more serious), but that demographic seems pretty small.

best to peruse the "Deli" subforum here and see the chat over there......and/or make a similar post there since it gets a lot more viewing and is more appropriate for your inquiry....
also, check out rent.men for LA, find dudes who appeal, and see if they've been discussed in the Deli......or make an inquiry about them/him and see if any of us have comment......