Overview

The most toxic voices on The Company of Men are also the loudest, sucking up all the air in the room. CoM leadership protects and elevates these punching-down voices while suppressing those offering alternative views, or anyone that dares call out the bullies when they break the site rules. This is a place to support one another in holding the Company of Men accountable to enforcing their own rules. Here, we discuss site content, providers, moderator behavior, and fellow members, supporting one another in how and when to best engage (or not), when and how to report site violations and other forms of abuse. You are not alone. There are other sane, normal, compassionate people on this forum. People who happen to be interested in the business of intimacy - that use their head as much as their heart in how they engage the world. Here we can chat freely, without the bad apples screaming over everyone else or moderators quietly siding with those voices. The majority of site members are genuine, decent people. As one of those people, you are welcome here. We are stronger together.