A difficult situation

[Kinected]

... or chocolates ...

Lol

[NYCguy10011]

I generally am very clear up-front that I’m looking for an erotic, mutual experience involving hands-only. That kind of clarity does the trick. Only once has a massage gone further than I wanted initially. It became intense quickly, and ultimately he sat on my cock and I fucked him. But I was a willing participant, even if it pushed past my initial limits. We both got caught up in the moment and the chemistry.

[NJMMZ]

Happened to me as well. Massage was going well. Masseuse became rock hard while rubbing my butt. I must have moaned or grinded my hips a bit which made him think I wanted him to go further. I did but not the way he wanted to. He put on a condom and flipped me over spreand my legs and tried to stick his cock in my ass. He was huge and it made me nervous. I told him no. I think it annoyed him a bit.

[IYH99]

I had a masseur once say he wanted to fuck me, but I told him I was just looking for massage and release (hands only). He totally understood and I still had a very enjoyable session.

[workingoutnow]

Twice recently masseur was hard and had it at my entrance and I said "that's cool and i don't want to kill the mood, but I only play safe. Both were very cool. One said he loved the teasing, the other later let me put a condom on him and he let me ride. I'm normally a top but he was BUILT and cool and I liked looking down at his body and reaction. If they've wanted to climb on me I've let told them I'm cool if they want me to put on a condom, then they decide safe to or not and gone with it. I think saying something is essential and doing it with respect works 99%of time.

[thedanNYC]

This is the reason I only do massage at non-M4M spas. Last outcall I did (off Yelp) ended with a surprise BJ. Stopped it immediately, but the massage was ruined. I don't want to have to think about my masseur's sexual and STD testing history.

 

P.S. - Go to Soothe some time later and who gets assigned? The same guy! Cancelled the massage and rocked myself to sleep.

[Dmitri]

Twice recently masseur was hard and had it at my entrance and I said "that's cool and i don't want to kill the mood, but I only play safe. Both were very cool. One said he loved the teasing, the other later let me put a condom on him and he let me ride. I'm normally a top but he was BUILT and cool and I liked looking down at his body and reaction. If they've wanted to climb on me I've let told them I'm cool if they want me to put on a condom, then they decide safe to or not and gone with it. I think saying something is essential and doing it with respect works 99%of time.

 

Only thing that makes me uncomfortable with this thread is that if the masseur is doing the massage ( and using massage oil or lotion, which I assume they all use.....no dry massage)....and then the masseur gets frisky and slips on a condom, either on you or himself, and then consensual fucking begins....isn't there a huge risk of the condom breaking with the massage oil/lotion your body and his hands are covered with? I would be naive to think that both jump in the shower and rinse off the oil, or that the masseur is using a water based lubricant to do the massage. That would be my major concern, that massage oil/lotion and condoms don't mix, since the oil breaks the condom. I have many masseurs attracted to me and want to fuck, but I stop them for this very reason.