The last couple days....

[Brian Kevin]

So I've been getting phone calls from other escorts (not guys forum worthy)asking tips and pointers, some even go as far as to ask if I'd like to partner up and travel with them. I'm talking transexals trying it (back page) guys off adam4adam swearing i need them bcuz cause they have 6 packs I need them. The only thing I need is Melt.

 

No. Just no. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

 

Does anyone else get this? Is there a scam I miss because I don't trust anyone? Lol I mean, I'm willing to give them a "run down" discuss how to stay safe and alive, but aa far as putting my "brand name" on someone else's name, now that's risky!I played the have a cute man over with you to sleep, and in the middle of the night he steals your laptop, cell phone and suit case. I was 19 once before, yes I know how it feels to wake up and have been robbed. I'll never let it happen again!

 

Anyone who paid attention to my reviews (massagem4m) will see I ran a 4 handed massage, with my ex fiancé. That was my ship, I called the shots, trained him and had the last word. With that, I was competent in him.

 

These seemingly strangers calling off which ever ad they are, are putting little to NO thought into what they are doing and or asking for. (Or they just wanna rob you)

 

Any escort, masseur or worker will agree, when business is good, the last thing you need to drag around is another mouth to feed. No matter my size, weight, heigh or ethnicity I will always focus on me 100%, I spent too much time and too much energy chasing boys, making "friends" with other escorts in this industry. I'm good.

 

Unless you have a sparkling clean rap sheet, no criminal chargers and your not a free loader and maybe just maybe you piss gold and shit weed, bur if you dont-- then expect nothing.

 

I'm going to wake and bake and go back to smiling. Not letting anyone or anything get to me.

 

I ain't got time to be no ones Hoeing Fairy God Mother. I didn't get one and the next guy sure as hell ain't getting one from me. I'll feed the homless and help an older women cross the street, but I sure as hell AINT helping some backpage dwelling hookers! I was in there shoes once, and I made all the right moves to be HERE and where I am today, I'm not just handing that to someone! No sir !

[Mikegaite]

escort, masseur or worker will agree, when business is good, the last thing you need to drag around is another mouth to feed. No matter my size, weight, heigh or ethnicity I will always focus on me 100%, I spent too much time and too much energy chasing boys, making "friends" with other escorts in this industry. I'm good.

 

Unless you have a sparkling clean rap sheet, no criminal chargers and your not a free loader and maybe just maybe you piss gold and shit weed, bur if you dont-- then expect nothing.

 

Respectfully, I disagree with this position. Regardless of how business is doing, I will put my brand name on someone else's name and try to help other people out. I did this last week endorsing Josh of Costa Rica. One of my clients subsequently contacted me about him, decided to take a chance on him based on my endorsement, and had an amazing time. It was a win-win for everyone. I will recommend other escorts to other clients because I know I'm not for everyone. Why not use my knowledge to help out other people? It's the right thing to do. Escorts can be very catty and unnecessarily competitive and there is little reason for this. There is a false sense of ranking of escorts in EOY voting, but some people's favorite color red and other people's favorite color is blue. Especially after the rentboy raid, escorts should be sticking together and trying to help each other out, not just merely fending for themselves.

 

And that's what the top escorts do. They help out other escorts and clients and give back to the community. Look at JD Daniels and Juan Vancouver. Look at how incredibly lengthy, informative, and useful their posts are with regard to giving advice about escorting. It's not about increasing their bottom lines; it's about sharing their insight with everyone.

 

I'm selfish just like everyone else, but I have been in the same city at the same time as the country's best escorts with no loss of business revenue. If you help out other people good things will happen and your own needs will be taken care of. Moreover, these are real people we are trying to help; it's not just some numbers game of competition among corporations to see who has the best profit margins. Altruism helps us all.

 

You may just be talking strictly about Backpage people trying to somehow mooch off your success. I have not encountered this problem before, I had an escort friend get arrested from Backpage advertising, and so I steer clear of it. At least you have the success and recognition to be considered a role model. That's not a bad place to be.

 

But even with Backpage people, I would still help as best as I could. I would try to help those people out by just steering toward the resources online about how to be a better escort. And then block the numbers of the crazy ones. For every person at the bottom who is a mooch, there is someone like you who isn't who deserves a leg up.

[+ Truereview]

I'm not an escort but branding...that...I know! I like @Mikegaite 's altruistic view, but if you view the request purely from a business perspective, you have to do your research well before you lend your brand credibility to someone else. BK, I'm glad you are thinking about this carefully, even suspiciously. You need to vet those folks who want to pair up.

 

1. Are they thoughtful, fun, and giving like you? ( your brand seems to exude that).
   
2. Do they bring other things to the table that propel you both to greater customer satisfaction? For example, I haven't heard you talk about your reflexology skills, so if you didn't have such skill, could this partner deliver that?
   
3. Get to know them (trial period) so you can judge them in good and bad times so you know how to handle them when they are engaging in brand damaging behavior.
   

Your brand and reputation are precious. Yes, be nice, be supportive of your community, but also be fucking careful and meticulous in your brand assessment and blending process. I would also add that it is very OK for you to run a business as long as it is done with integrity. A nice way to bring your altruistic aspirations with your business model is to create a brand statement that embodies what you do for a living. Example: "my aim is to bring pleasure to others by being my authentic self." If there are other guys out there who accelerate your brand statement to the satisfaction of your aim, you've got the obligation to vet them carefully. That's integrity.

 

Now, let's go have a carb-loaded breakfast! Smooch, - TR

[Brian Kevin]

reflexology skills

 

Its sooo draining. This would be indicated in a regular who suffers from tremendous pain and discomfort. Reflexology with trigger points can be very good but also is hard on the lymphatic system and inducing an illness would be likely on a dehydrated and/or malnourished client.

 

 

 

Now, let's go have a carb-loaded breakfast! Smooch, - TR

 

Yes, please.I was just drooling over the thought of hashbrowns, eggs and wheat toast

 

 

My biggest test, would be issuing a Mock Session, if I wouldn't pay for the hour, then partnering up isn't going to work. I'm not even concerned about "good sex" I am more than capable for providing that, twice fold. My primary focus would be someone smiley, upbeat and able to handle a rude situation that could make or break my career. I love your view on business and it sounds, you are indeed, very successful !

 

xoxoxo Mwahhh!

[Brian Kevin]

Hoeing Fairy God Mother

some backpage dwelling hookers!

wake and bake

 

Jesus. The evil smirk I had typing this one out.....

[corndog]

Another factor to consider:

If you decide to give an unknown individual advice about escorting, be very careful to take the same precautions that you take when discussing services with unknown clients. It seems like it would be very easy to let your guard down and accidentally imply that you trade sexual services for money. It seems entirely plausible that law enforcement could pose as an aspiring escort in an effort to entice you to admit to illegal activities.

[Brian Kevin]

Another factor to consider:

If you decide to give an unknown individual advice about escorting, be very careful to take the same precautions that you take when discussing services with unknown clients. It seems like it would be very easy to let your guard down and accidentally imply that you trade sexual services for money. It seems entirely plausible that law enforcement could pose as an aspiring escort in an effort to entice you to admit to illegal activities.

 

I agree! Trust no one

 

no one was putting food into my mouth when I was sleeping on a park bench thru the spring/summer attending college trying to graduate early, hard work paid off and I did. Therefore, I will stick to what I know and that is helping myself, friends and family.

 

It's my empire, I built and I intend on defending it. I would not put my name on an escort I met, in order for me to put my name on someone or something I need years. Putting your name on someone or something can not be reversed, no matter how genuine they seem, wolves come in sheeps clothing frequently.

 

This is why my friends, I work alone and am single !

[RussJohnson]

Respectfully, I disagree with this position. Regardless of how business is doing, I will put my brand name on someone else's name and try to help other people out. I did this last week endorsing Josh of Costa Rica. One of my clients subsequently contacted me about him, decided to take a chance on him based on my endorsement, and had an amazing time. It was a win-win for everyone. I will recommend other escorts to other clients because I know I'm not for everyone. Why not use my knowledge to help out other people? It's the right thing to do. Escorts can be very catty and unnecessarily competitive and there is little reason for this. There is a false sense of ranking of escorts in EOY voting, but some people's favorite color red and other people's favorite color is blue. Especially after the rentboy raid, escorts should be sticking together and trying to help each other out, not just merely fending for themselves.

 

And that's what the top escorts do. They help out other escorts and clients and give back to the community. Look at JD Daniels and Juan Vancouver. Look at how incredibly lengthy, informative, and useful their posts are with regard to giving advice about escorting. It's not about increasing their bottom lines; it's about sharing their insight with everyone.

 

I'm selfish just like everyone else, but I have been in the same city at the same time as the country's best escorts with no loss of business revenue. If you help out other people good things will happen and your own needs will be taken care of. Moreover, these are real people we are trying to help; it's not just some numbers game of competition among corporations to see who has the best profit margins. Altruism helps us all.

 

You may just be talking strictly about Backpage people trying to somehow mooch off your success. I have not encountered this problem before, I had an escort friend get arrested from Backpage advertising, and so I steer clear of it. At least you have the success and recognition to be considered a role model. That's not a bad place to be.

 

But even with Backpage people, I would still help as best as I could. I would try to help those people out by just steering toward the resources online about how to be a better escort. And then block the numbers of the crazy ones. For every person at the bottom who is a mooch, there is someone like you who isn't who deserves a leg up.

 

I agree with you here but I think Brian was responding to a certain type of contact which I've received, but only a couple of times. They are sort of weird and seem a little off. Asking advice is one thing, telling me about your random client who I should team up with you on but I have to say very specific things to get extra money for special services is another (sounds sketchy and like a perfect way to trap someone like @corndog said).

[JamahlBrandon]

Respectfully, I disagree with this position. Regardless of how business is doing, I will put my brand name on someone else's name and try to help other people out. I did this last week endorsing Josh of Costa Rica. One of my clients subsequently contacted me about him, decided to take a chance on him based on my endorsement, and had an amazing time. It was a win-win for everyone. I will recommend other escorts to other clients because I know I'm not for everyone. Why not use my knowledge to help out other people? It's the right thing to do. Escorts can be very catty and unnecessarily competitive and there is little reason for this. There is a false sense of ranking of escorts in EOY voting, but some people's favorite color red and other people's favorite color is blue. Especially after the rentboy raid, escorts should be sticking together and trying to help each other out, not just merely fending for themselves.

 

And that's what the top escorts do. They help out other escorts and clients and give back to the community. Look at JD Daniels and Juan Vancouver. Look at how incredibly lengthy, informative, and useful their posts are with regard to giving advice about escorting. It's not about increasing their bottom lines; it's about sharing their insight with everyone.

 

I'm selfish just like everyone else, but I have been in the same city at the same time as the country's best escorts with no loss of business revenue. If you help out other people good things will happen and your own needs will be taken care of. Moreover, these are real people we are trying to help; it's not just some numbers game of competition among corporations to see who has the best profit margins. Altruism helps us all.

 

You may just be talking strictly about Backpage people trying to somehow mooch off your success. I have not encountered this problem before, I had an escort friend get arrested from Backpage advertising, and so I steer clear of it. At least you have the success and recognition to be considered a role model. That's not a bad place to be.

 

But even with Backpage people, I would still help as best as I could. I would try to help those people out by just steering toward the resources online about how to be a better escort. And then block the numbers of the crazy ones. For every person at the bottom who is a mooch, there is someone like you who isn't who deserves a leg up.

 

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