question for fellow clients and escorts...

[kaboom35]

I appreciate all the responses and I'm going to think it over. I'm leaning toward setting up a new email account just to talk to him through that. If i do meet up with him from that email account I don't plan on telling him that I was that guy....chances are he may not even remember the incident but since it's kind of recent he might.

[BabyBoomer]

ALL contact would have to be via email, no calling, no texting for any reason. Unless, of course, you intend to change your phone# too.

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ Gar1eth]

ALL contact would have to be via email, no calling, no texting for any reason. Unless, of course, you intend to change your phone# too.

 

~ Boomer ~

That's not that difficult if you get a Google Voice Number or a pay-as-you-go phone.

 

Gman

[maximdw]

You could always deal with the issue head on. "I booked you once before and had to cancel last minute. Again, I'm so sorry about that, but really do want to meet you. I'd like to meet Tuesday at 3:00 at your place. If you'd like, I can pay a deposit for your time (via paypal, sending an Apple gift card, or however works best for you) to prove that I plan on showing this time."

Kevin Slater

 

+1

[marylander1940]

I need advice.

 

Several months ago I emailed an escort i've been eyeing from rentboy.com. He has is somewhat well reviewed and just my type so contacted him to meet extremely last minute. With my work schedule its not easy for me to plan ahead with an escort so i've been known to shoot some emails and texts last minute if my night is free. This escort in question said he was willing to meet with me even though it was last minute. We set a time for me to meet at his apartment only about an hour later after the initial contact. He was very accommodating. All contact was through email up to this point.

 

As I was getting ready to go meet with him, I had a close friend call me with an emergency and I had to attend to my friend. I was not going to be able to go to the escorts house and keep my appointment. Instead of emailing him, I text him to let him know that I couldn't make the appointment because of a situation I had to handle. He was upset and frustrated, saying that he walk out of his plans to come meet with me. As much as I appreciated that (and he could of told me he was busy and couldn't meet that night), I felt really bad because he really was putting me first in that situation. I completely understand how the situation came off flaky on my end, but I have no reason to flake. I have been wanting to meet this escort for quite awhile now and I have met up with a handful of other escorts who could vouch for me that i'm not a flake. Anyway he stop texting me back after my constant apology but there was nothing I could do.

 

So now its been a few months and I still want to meet with this escort and i'm worried he won't respond to either my email or text now that I have conversed with him through both avenues and my contacting him may raise a red flag with him and he could ignore me. I was thinking of setting up another email account so he wouldn't think I was the same person and still be able to meet.

 

Thoughts or advice on what to do?

 

You should have sent him 50 or 100 to his Paypal account for your "last minute cancellation".

 

Imagine the number of cancellations, "are you free in 30 mins?, let me see if I'm free and I'll call you in 10 mins", no-shows, teasers, and other idiots this guys have every month.