I Am The Worst Due To Doug's Hilarity Post

[SmallTownJohn]

Gentlemen,

 

From three small sentences I posted on the 'Hilarity' thread, I received a scathing email from a supposed boyfriend(who knew??!!) regarding what an unsuccessful loser I was. How my partner is such terrible dead weight & a loser too.

 

I was read the fucking riot act on just how I am absolutely the worst at anything & everything. And that if I were more like 'someone' I'd be a greater success and not be such a total complete loser.

 

Again, because of three sentences...regarding an old post...so obviously--folks who voluntarily no longer post here, are watching ALL written here.

 

My sent response is below:

 

Dude,

 

I made a simple comment on a message board. That is it! I mentioned no names.

 

I let the history of what someone else did speak for itself.

 

You can say whatever demented, misinformed bullshit you want. You can call me and my partner names.

 

But the fact is....I don't sit around and create misinformation. EVER. I don't sit around and create false scenarios. EVER. I don't lift other people's work or experiences and claim them as my own. EVER.

 

These are situations where someone else(NOT ME) VOLUNTARILY CHOSE to manipulate the public.

 

My pathetic life isn't built around spinning & weaving lies 24/7. PERIOD!!!!!

 

DO NOT contact me again.

[instudiocity]

John,

Reading this post, Monty Python comes to mind, ""Fuck the fucking fuckers!"

ISC

[SmallTownJohn]

John,

Reading this post, Monty Python comes to mind, ""Fuck the fucking fuckers!"

ISC

 

I LOVE fuck lol

 

But I think what burns me up the most...on my life, there's NO ONE--NOBODY--who spends less time surfing the net than I do AND I NEVER, EVER, EVER say to myself "what can I post online to create some buzz about myself today? I need some clients. What's the best untrue shit I can throw out there to increase my coins?"

 

I may be stupid. I may be a dumb hillbilly. I may be a loser. But I have a soul & a conscience & I am genuine to the mutherfucking core.

[Bosguy]

Gentlemen,

 

From three small sentences I posted on the 'Hilarity' thread, I received a scathing email from a supposed boyfriend(who knew??!!) regarding what an unsuccessful loser I was. How my partner is such terrible dead weight & a loser too.

 

I was read the fucking riot act on just how I am absolutely the worst at anything & everything. And that if I were more like 'someone' I'd be a greater success and not be such a total complete loser.

 

Again, because of three sentences...regarding an old post...so obviously--folks who voluntarily no longer post here, are watching ALL written here.

 

My sent response is below:

 

Dude,

 

I made a simple comment on a message board. That is it! I mentioned no names.

 

I let the history of what someone else did speak for itself.

 

You can say whatever demented, misinformed bullshit you want. You can call me and my partner names.

 

But the fact is....I don't sit around and create misinformation. EVER. I don't sit around and create false scenarios. EVER. I don't lift other people's work or experiences and claim them as my own. EVER.

 

These are situations where someone else(NOT ME) VOLUNTARILY CHOSE to manipulate the public.

 

My pathetic life isn't built around spinning & weaving lies 24/7. PERIOD!!!!!

 

DO NOT contact me again.

 

This issue is getting absolutely horrific! It has become a matter of whether you agree with a popular client poster and his followers on the Forum (including administrators) or anybody else who dares question HIS group. The fault (AT BEST) is the fault of BOTH parties about personal problems--not the real issue. It is about time that people look at this situation in a realistic manner without putting one group on pedestals and the other group in the gutter.

 

Favoritism due to quantity/not quality is not right

 

Boston Bill

[instudiocity]

I LOVE fuck lol

It just seemed apropos

 

I may be stupid. I may be a dumb hillbilly. I may be a loser. But I have a soul & a conscience & I am genuine to the mutherfucking core.

I believe you are far from stupid. You may have an accent like Jethro Bodine, from what I've read about you, but that's just an external thing. I read your writings and you come across very well. You present yourself humbly and as a sensitive person. You have a heart.

 

You speculating on your loser status, now that just pisses me off. You cannot be all things to all people! You certainly aren't a loser - THEY ARE THE LOSERS because they've lost you - which probably explains the vitriol in the email you received.

 

Your reviews and the ones on here who know you testify to your kind soul, good conscience, HUGE cock and mannerly genuineness. Celebrate that and those guys who know you. Forget the naysayers, FUCK the fucking fuckers! They just don't know what they're missing!

[SmallTownJohn]

It just seemed apropos

 

 

I believe you are far from stupid. You may have an accent like Jethro Bodine, from what I've read about you, but that's just an external thing. I read your writings and you come across very well. You present yourself humbly and as a sensitive person. You have a heart.

 

You speculating on your loser status, now that just pisses me off. You cannot be all things to all people! You certainly aren't a loser - THEY ARE THE LOSERS because they've lost you - which probably explains the vitriol in the email you received.

 

Your reviews and the ones on here who know you testify to your kind soul, good conscience, HUGE cock and mannerly genuineness. Celebrate that and those guys who know you. Forget the naysayers, FUCK the fucking fuckers! They just don't know what they're missing!

 

Thank you!!!

 

I guess what REALLY hurts my feelings was the attack on my partner. Although I don't talk about it in the open, he'll probably lose total vision in under two years. That's tough for someone so vibrant & athletic. To watch that happen and know there's nothing I can do.

 

ANYONE who can make jokes in a pet store like "can I get a seeing eye Pug? WAIT A MINUTE, maybe that's not a great move. that Marty Feldman thing is a disqualifier." or asking "do cocks come stamped with Braille? I must be solidly sure of the sizes during future eightsomes"

 

He's tough. Especially putting up with my ass and escorting.

 

PS I am receiving threats now. It's a team of boozed up flying monkeys

[+ WilliamM]

Thank you!!!

 

I guess what REALLY hurts my feelings was the attack on my partner. Although I don't talk about it in the open, he'll probably lose total vision in under two years. That's tough for someone so vibrant & athletic. To watch that happen and know there's nothing I can do.

 

ANYONE who can make jokes in a pet store like "can I get a seeing eye Pug? WAIT A MINUTE, maybe that's not a great move. that Marty Feldman thing is a disqualifier." or asking "do cocks come stamped with Braille? I must be solidly sure of the sizes during future eightsomes"

 

He's tough. Especially putting up with my ass and escorting.

 

John,

 

I am very sorry about what happened to you, because you were mere agreeing with a comment I made when Doug69 posted recently after a long period of being away from this site. It's one thing to attach you. I seems completely off limits to also attack your partner. You both must be very strong people to go through his health crisis at a young age.

 

You did not do any of the things you mentioned in your first post in this thread to get an advantage over other escorts. I hope you get over this attack that came out of no where. My thought will be with you for a very long time, and my guess is many others feel the same way.

 

William

[uwsman2]

John, seeing this thread reminds me that we connected once many years ago when you were visiting NYC on an escorting trip. You don't seem to come up here anymore. I take it you did not find NYC rewarding. Anyway, I wish it was part of your regular route, because I remember our "brief encounter" fondly.

[Diverdan]

John,

I have never met you in person, but I fail to understand why someone would attack you in such a way. I loved your response, and that person really has his head screwed on wrong. In fact, in my professional opinion, he needs some serious psychological counseling and psychotherapy. Even if he were a client and had a less than perfect experience with you, his vicious attack suggests something more serious is wrong with this individual. My advise, even though you haven't asked it, "FORGET ABOUT THIS INDIVIDUAL" and go on with your life as if it never happened. Those who know you, love you, and you and your partner are destined to have a lot of good life together. So, best wishes and glad you shared this with us, and we hopefully can help you put it in perspective.

DD

[JoeBlow]

Dear John,

Admittedly, I don't know the other parties involved and honestly have no idea what any of this stuff is about. But, I HAVE met you in person on more than one occasion and I know first-hand, without any doubt, that you are a very good man who possesses an intelligent mind, a sexy body to die for, and a compassionate heart of gold. Continue to keep your head held high and never, never, never let small, irrelevant things steal your sunshine and beautiful smile.

[Guest verymarried]

I am not sure what all this is about but if John can use some upbeat comments, John has given me more personal uplift than I could ever want, just bummin around the French Quarter on several occasions. I could have cared less about his bodily attributes - all I needed those nights were his good heart, sense of humor and sweet kisses.

[SmallTownJohn]

THANK YOU! To my friends in Tennessee, Michigan/Washington, DC(who read this site) & Tel Aviv. I have forwarded the necessary emails sent to me. I will forward any further emails sent regarding this matter. Everyone else...much appreciated. I enjoyed my day at this site!

[bigvalboy]

THANK YOU! To my friends in Tennessee, Michigan/Washington, DC(who read this site) & Tel Aviv. I have forwarded the necessary emails sent to me. I will forward any further emails sent regarding this matter. Everyone else...much appreciated. I enjoyed my day at this site!

 

Hey John, I just ran into this, and didn't realize that this thread had continued on in this direction. I honestly had to go back and retrace everything. It does get a little baffling and confusing as to the venomous comments coming from certain posters and their friends, who march into battle more interested in doing harm to the opposing side rather than just stepping back and thinking for a moment how hurtful they can be. I am very sorry that you had to go through this. Two comments, one is that DD is 100% correct here. I think several members here need to be get on some sort of medication...lol...then step back, relax, and stop taking all of this so seriously.

 

The second comment is that, close to a year ago I was also viciously attacked verbally via email and private message by some forum members, which thankfully no longer post here, and an escort. Looking forward I decided to close all PM's down to only those on my contact list, and never never ever, open an email from anyone, unless I consider them a friend. Life got much more calmer after making that decision. The temptation to read unwanted emails is a natural reaction, but I always just hit "delete" the minute I see them, and with a new and improved phone number, I no longer have to view unwanted text messages when I am out enjoying a wonderful day.... I think it is important in this day and age in which we communicate in cyber space and through social media, that we install filters in our lives. Small barriers to keep out some of the unpleasantness from others....

 

Best to you and your friend going forward, and I hope the this does not discourage you from posting here.

 

Cheers, BVB

[Steven_Draker]

I was always surprised at people who spend an awful amount of time writing private messages to people they don't even know.

 

I think you're missing something in real life that has so much to offer. But ultimately is what you make of it.

 

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[SmallTownJohn]

Thanks to my pals(Who are still checking things out to be certain) They believe this is the work of an old notorious porn terrorist who has been around threatening & scamming folks for years & years. Inserting himself everywhere. Pretending to know everyone. Someone who creates tales. Hooboy even hated this guy. Ironically, someone a few weeks ago said, "Do you know this internet guy_____ ____ who is online pals with (insert escort)" My response was something like '"I've heard the name or I've heard he is nuts or no one has ever seen this guy. He says he disappears out the back door at all events"

 

I love my internet porn hounds. Beautiful people!

 

I'm told I should contact porn star Ricky Sinz who is an expert on this particular character. Mr. Sinz, I will be contacting you very soon. To end this, OMFG! my Mr. Magoo is a house on fire angry because he can't fly. Pressure might make his head explode. I'm trying not to laugh because he is begging to drive 10-12 hours just to punch someone in the face for "the common ugly people like myself and all of escort kind. Please let me knock her into next week" He said in total seriousness he will wear an Orlando astronaut diaper all the way. I choked on my coffee. Thanks y'all!

[Becket]

Here's a long distance hug from one who spent a most enjoyable evening with you in Atlanta a few years ago.

 

This site is a microcosm of the events in Boston these past weeks: A couple hateful people can cause a great deal of pain and suffering. And for a time, it can feel like the bad guys are too powerful; that there is nothing we can do about them. But evil and hate never win out. There are too many good people; on this site and in the world, that won't tolerate it..

 

I've often wondered if the committed and hard working escorts like John really understand how important they are in the lives of old farts like me. Clients bitch about all sorts of things surrounding the escort experience. But my life journey has been made far more interesting and (even) fun because of the efforts of those guys like John who take time to offer their friendship. The physical part is always fun. But the other stuff is much more valuable.

 

Hang in there, baby!

[SmallTownJohn]

Thanks to everyone who has contacted me. While I won't be commenting anymore concerning this particular subject on the forum, I will be jawing & posting on tons of other fine fun & information. But let me end my part on this with a reassurance...a text answer I received very late last night to the question asked, "What should I say to people?"

 

The text back was "Tell them The Fags, The Jews & The Geeks are on this!"

[Diverdan]

John,

As you said, it is time to move on, and BVB has given us all some great advise. I disregard all the negative comments on this Forum, as life is too short to harbor the hostility and venom that occassionally gets spouted here. I stand by my earlier post to you and others who may have read it. Best wishes for a continued happy life with your partner, and ignore those who want to put you down for what ever reason. They are not worth responding too, and if they step over the line, then they can face serious consequences.

[Bosguy]

Hey John, I just ran into this, and didn't realize that this thread had continued on in this direction. I honestly had to go back and retrace everything. It does get a little baffling and confusing as to the venomous comments coming from certain posters and their friends, who march into battle more interested in doing harm to the opposing side rather than just stepping back and thinking for a moment how hurtful they can be. I am very sorry that you had to go through this. Two comments, one is that DD is 100% correct here. I think several members here need to be get on some sort of medication...lol...then step back, relax, and stop taking all of this so seriously.

 

The second comment is that, close to a year ago I was also viciously attacked verbally via email and private message by some forum members, which thankfully no longer post here, and an escort. Looking forward I decided to close all PM's down to only those on my contact list, and never never ever, open an email from anyone, unless I consider them a friend. Life got much more calmer after making that decision. The temptation to read unwanted emails is a natural reaction, but I always just hit "delete" the minute I see them, and with a new and improved phone number, I no longer have to view unwanted text messages when I am out enjoying a wonderful day.... I think it is important in this day and age in which we communicate in cyber space and through social media, that we install filters in our lives. Small barriers to keep out some of the unpleasantness from others....

 

Best to you and your friend going forward, and I hope the this does not discourage you from posting here.

 

Cheers, BVB

 

Poor little BVB that Forum members are disagreeing with you. So the King of PM's shuts down these and ignores those who ask for a response on the open Forum. How Brave!

 

This has nothing to do with John's situation, it is simply one more chance for you to resurrect a personal topic without having to answere pertinent questions about the topic. Generalizations are bs, specifics are informative.

 

Boston Bill