Liam in DC

[+ mature_guy]

Profound thoughts. However, it's hard to gauge the situation if the boy doesn't show up for the appointment.

[McLeanspider]

Profound thoughts. However, it's hard to gauge the situation if the boy doesn't show up for the appointment.

 

In that case I would call him a flake, gay or gay-per-pay, but a flake.

[anotherjohnindupont]

Profound thoughts. However, it's hard to gauge the situation if the boy doesn't show up for the appointment.

 

Some younger escorts and unfortunately some of the older ones (30+) believe they could do this for a long time, they'll be young and desirable forever.

 

It's very disappointing when someone doesn't show up for an appointment, so irresponsible, besides the fact of been offered to make in one hour what guys in a McDonald's make in a week and turning it down.

[+ mature_guy]

Very disappointing indeed (on several levels), but Grindr came through for me so the afternoon wasn't a total frustration.

 

I've had very few no shows over the years and I've never found a guaranteed way to predict a no show, but the younger the escort it seems the more likely that they will get a better offer, be hanging out with friends and not want to leave, or just forget. This is the second jockboy escort that this has happened with however, so I'm unlikely to try a third.

[+ Gar1eth]

When one says "gay" or "straight", one may think that means a 100% commitment to one or the other. Most people are somewhere along a varied spectrum. There are not "50 shades of gray," there are 500 or more. Simply put, the words "gay" and "straight" are not accurate descriptions of human sexuality. Sexuality is far too broad a condition to be reduced to such trivial adjectives. Sometimes younger escorts call themselves 'straight' because they themselves have just begun sorting out their own sexuality. Or they might enjoy sex with both genders but somehow think the designation "bi" means confused. And of course many who hire are married to women. What do we call these men? Gay? Straight? Bi? Labels are rarely helpful or accurate. I know they sometimes help us pick an escort. But the connection and chemistry are what matters most.

 

In my case 'gay' means pretty 'gay'. As far as I can remember the only time I ever achieved half an erection at the though of a woman was in one dream I had back in my 30's. I can recognize a if a woman is pretty. But it does nothing for me. Even back in my teens with raging hormones- actually I'm not sure how raging mine were-probably only lukewarm- even then the thought of sex with a girl was scary. And I definitely never had an erection from it.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

Very disappointing indeed (on several levels), but Grindr came through for me so the afternoon wasn't a total frustration.

 

I've had very few no shows over the years and I've never found a guaranteed way to predict a no show, but the younger the escort it seems the more likely that they will get a better offer, be hanging out with friends and not want to leave, or just forget. This is the second jockboy escort that this has happened with however, so I'm unlikely to try a third.

 

Did Planet Jockboys give you an explanation? When I tried them on a guy. They said he could be versatile. Them when they checked with him, they said he said no he wasn't. But they told me that they had had problems with him, and dropped him from the website that day.

 

Gman

[+ mature_guy]

I eventually received the "I fucked up, thought it was Sunday, can we reschedule" email. Which is a pretty lame excuse reading the entire email exchange, unless the guy is indeed a complete flake. But, I had no interest in rescheduling with him. From Planet Jockboys directly, I haven't heard anything and doubt I will. Saturday was such a beautiful day in DC that I'm guessing he was enjoying the sunshine and either lost track of the time or just blew off the appointment (rather than me).

[+ Gar1eth]

Sex is sex. Getting turned on by a man doesn't make you bi or gay, it makes you a sexual being. Choosing to date a man makes you bi or gay. You all have to understand that orientation is more than getting a boner, its about physical and emotional bonding.

If a gay man has sex with a female, he's still thought of as gay... When then do we not accept a straight man having sex with a man still is straight? Let's be mature about this, shall we?.

 

I have been reading this statement again and and again. And while it may be partially right in general- I don't think it's completely correct or really correct for me at all. I would say at least for men, getting turned on at least mentally , by another guy means you are gay or bisexual. Now if for some reason a straight guy was experimenting and had another guy physically stimulate him - I accept that many guys will respond to manual stimulation with an erection. But to say that being bi or gay is a choice of whom you decide to date or marry. Well look at all the closeted guys who are only passing as straight who are married or dating women. They aren't really straight. Emotional attachment comes more into play with bisexuals- and I agree there probably is a continuum on these things- they an choose who they feel they are more comfortable with. It's a very complicated subject obviously. But I can definitely say being gay is more than just a conscious choice of who you would rather date.

 

Gman

[+ mature_guy]

Redo...because I couldn't resist. The kid is f*ing awesome