Is anyone else getting more requests for massage than actually escort work?

[JoeyBryant]

The topic of massage seems to be one that never gets old and is always questioned for me. But for me locally, I am getting virtually nothing steady from escort sites any longer. The most recent responses have all been for 'massage'. It's like okay I am more than happy to give a massage, but for some odd reason I cringe a bit when someone contacts me on an escort site asking for massage. It's like, can I not be an escort anymore?

 

I know how to work around it, and I know some people are really looking for massage while others want to be discrete in their initial correspondence. But it makes it difficult to know whether the person is actually going to want to pay escort rates for a massage. And if you quote a lower rate, there's no guarantee you can talk your way back up to your usual escort rate. It's stuff like this that confuses me:

 

I am seeken a great erotic massage with plenty of full on body contact. If anything slips inside me I am okay with that. I prefer to host but will travel as well. Rates for an hour? Thanks

 

It's almost as saying that they want to pay a massage rate, but including anything extra-curricular should be included with that. And then sometimes when you do go into these massage appointments, they end up trying to get you to do more than they bargained for. I recall one appointment where I specifically asked the guy, "do you want to do anything else besides massage?" He says, no sir. Then he gets here and starts asking me about what my regular escort rate includes. I'm like, anything beyond the massage. period. I mean, he hit me up on an escort website. I really don't understand the psychology behind it. One guy, good intentions he may have had, contacted me at 2 am just after a few inches of snow were dumped on us asking me to come for $50 less than my rate because he just wanted massage, and "whatever else maybe." Well, I don't know what that means. You've already started on the wrong foot by #1 contacting me well after-hours, #2 dropping my rate at a time that some people actually charge MORE and it's an outcall and now asking for massage. I didn't even bother taking it. However, oddly enough if he'd of contacted me on a masseur site I may have taken it simply because $150 is pretty decent for just a massage (if that was really all he was interested in).

 

And it's why locally I'm pretty much considering not doing anymore escort sites locally and sticking to massage sites because maybe atleast I can get back to having a regular schedule. I mean, it's almost forcing me to operate in a bait and switch manner when I'm being asked to take on appointments that normally masseurs on other sites would offer. But I would rather be able to use 1 site for 1 thing and a different site for another.

[Michael Wayne]

i am always glad to do massage but it comes at my normal $200 one hour or $300 two hour escort rates. Invariably the , "massage," client wants full service even if he says he does not. It is their way of inspecting you and checking out your equipment. Fortunately I always pass the inspection. lol ! http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop

[rickp]

Agreed. I'm perfectly happy to give a great massage, but the rate is the same.

[JoeyBryant]

Agreed. I'm perfectly happy to give a great massage, but the rate is the same.

 

But then what about when they say, "oh, well I was just looking for a massage, sorry to waste your time".

[Rod Hagen]

It's always been about 55/45% for me. Guess which one I prefer!

[Michael Wayne]

I then reccomend that they call a liscened massage therapist in the area (there are always dozens available anywhere anytime.) I just dont need the money that bad and I still (thank God) have enough clients willing to pay full price. In this biz when you start to be available at a discount rate is when you know the end of your career is near. Joey you are at your PEAK and PRIME and i reccomend you do not ever give in to these guys.