Announcing a final resignation from message forum...(not daddys reviews)

[josephga]

Both very true observations. I had a friend tell me something that was VERY painful and hurtful to hear many months ago. But I knew he did it because he cared about me and wanted to help. After a tough 36 hour pity party for myself, I suddenly realized he was right and made some big changes in my life. It led me to where I am now -- happier than ever with a great partner in life. Without those changes, I doubt I would have been able to nurture the love I have now with my partner. So although what I heard was harsh, it was absolutely necessary for me.

 

Hearing the bad things about yourself isn't easy. It's tough. But if it's from someone you care about and you know cares about you, it is wise to listen.

 

 

Also can depend on who delivers the message. you could tell me something and a ex bf could tell me the exact same thing and I would actually think you would be genuine and would consider it regardless if I agreed or not. But if it came from a former bf I would just think they were a bitch lol

[adriano46]

RE: Announcing a final resignation from message forum...(not daddys reviews)

 

What's the difference between a resignation and a final resignation?

 

I can think of something like BARBARA STREISAND announcing one last, final, ultimate, never to be repeated concert, for instance.

[adriano46]

RE: Announcing a final resignation from message forum...(not daddys reviews)

 

What's the difference between a resignation and a final resignation?

 

I can think of something like BARBARA STREISAND announcing one last, final, ultimate, never to be repeated concert, for instance.

[leigh.bess.toad]

2. Dating and Escort Etiquette – These two things are totally different. In a dating situation it behooves both parties to establish early in the relationship who pays for what. I have always felt that in the early stages of dating going Dutch works best unless it is a special occasion. In an escort situation the client pays for everything PERIOD. Now a number of years ago on my first meeting with Benjamin Nicholas he snagged the check and paid for our dinner while I was in the restroom. I was dumbfounded. He absolutely refused to allow me reimburse him: classy gesture but certainly unexpected and unnecessary.

 

And that is why you are held in such high esteem Epigonos. The only disagreements my partner and I have ever had in our relationship was who GOT to pay (as opposed to HAD to pay) for dinners out. We never went dutch but switched up paying most times or one of us would pay the check and the other leave the tip. Even to this day it can sometimes be a struggle to see who can grab the check first. But in the end, since it is a partnership we both want, we try to just keep it fairly even. It certainly helps when both parties are looking for the same thing at the beginning. And I guess sometimes in dating, that isn't always the case, which makes things dicier.

[Guy Fawkes]

Can we stop the merry-go-round? I'm starting to get dizzy. Good luck and God bless Joey!

 

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[leigh.bess.toad]

Also can depend on who delivers the message. you could tell me something and a ex bf could tell me the exact same thing and I would actually think you would be genuine and would consider it regardless if I agreed or not. But if it came from a former bf I would just think they were a bitch lol

 

 

Absolutely right, Joseph. The friend who gave me the message was probably the only person in the world at that time that I would have listened to about it. Actually a few other friends had hinted at things, but this true and great friend laid it all on the line, in the stark ugly truth. The messenger can be so important. A really true friend will risk everything if it is something that he thinks you really need to know.

[bigvalboy]

But if it's from someone you care about and you know cares about you, it is wise to listen

 

I would agree LBT, however since we are speaking about Joey, you are assuming here, that I cared enough about him to give advice to him, as I had tried to in the past, and even sent him a series of private messages, he not only ignored what I was trying to say, but also sent a very unfriendly message letting me know that he did not want to hear advice from me. Good friends yes, then I will listen and have often given difficult advice to them, however the reality is, I do not know him, probably never will and certainly would not call or consider him a friend. So his leaving was certainly not of any consequence to me, and so I did not feel a need to put my 2 cents in, as I knew that there would be more than enough members willing to do that, and as you can see I was correct.

 

Hope this makes clear my reasons for staying under the radar... BTW looking forward to meeting you in PS.