Simon Dexter AKA Harley: What a Disappointment!

[bcohen7719]

There have been other threads on the guy and the reports were of his unsatisfactory performance. I recall that SilverDollar posted about hiring him for an overnight in which the 'good news' was that he was polite and handsome and the 'bad news' was that he didn't want to sleep with him!

 

That's correct. He's polite and handsome but pushes you away.

He doesn't want physical contact.

 

BC

[DeeGeeBee]

I met Simon Dexter several years ago, in NYC, in a social setting. Based on my experience speaking with him, he's delusional and a self-loathing gay man. A simple search online reveals several sites he's attempted to create, including a blog, which is defunct, and a site for his underwear/undergarment line, DEX by Simon Dexter. In fact, he was pushing the story that he was developing that line when I met him. It's been several years since then and as his, er, brand site reveals -- nothing's happenin'. No underwear line. No nothing. His astoundingly low self esteem leads him to give interviews whereby he states his plan is to take over the world '... slowly.' The Simon Dexters of the world get theirs in the end, because a strong, honest work ethic is the only thing that delivers lasting success in the long run. I'm sure his underwear line never materialized because his pigeon or pigeons got wise and flew the coop, so to speak.

[DeeGeeBee]

Of course the link is down. That's part of Dexter's modus operandi. He has changed names several times over the years as well. He is trying to avoid negative reviews so that he can continue to prey on the unsuspecting.

All the links are down.

 

Here some pics of him.

 

http://img2.ph.126.net/5Oj7NZMpofosZM3xDfZ3fg==/6597605228820276323.jpg

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lxnoqoP6oY1r5rym1o1_500.jpg

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3kexhbUD51rrupeco1_400.jpg

[bcohen7719]

I saw his ad last week-always loved his look but too many bad notices on here to make me take the risk.....would love to hear (pvt if necessary) from anyone who actually hired him?

 

Hornytwell:

 

"Private message" me.

 

BC

[bcohen7719]

I met Simon Dexter several years ago, in NYC, in a social setting. Based on my experience speaking with him, he's delusional and a self-loathing gay man. A simple search online reveals several sites he's attempted to create, including a blog, which is defunct, and a site for his underwear/undergarment line, DEX by Simon Dexter. In fact, he was pushing the story that he was developing that line when I met him. It's been several years since then and as his, er, brand site reveals -- nothing's happenin'. No underwear line. No nothing. His astoundingly low self esteem leads him to give interviews whereby he states his plan is to take over the world '... slowly.' The Simon Dexters of the world get theirs in the end, because a strong, honest work ethic is the only thing that delivers lasting success in the long run. I'm sure his underwear line never materialized because his pigeon or pigeons got wise and flew the coop, so to speak.

 

Glenn1441,

 

That's a highly insightful summary! You're absolutely right.

 

I experienced this same narcissistic babbling "overnight." He does not allow any physical

contact. To be fair, he is very, very nice.

 

BC

[bcohen7719]

Far be it from ME...But Almost 2 Years Later why a discussion now? Apparently his ADS are long gone.....

 

BG,

 

I think they are back (below).

 

If you are interested--DON'T. PM me instead.

 

BC

 

http://www.rentboy.com/ListingPopup.aspx?lid=233262&preview=1

[hornytwells]

Very interested in Glenn's perspective and sounds right on the money. It shouldn't, but it never ceases to amaze me, why a guy so gorgeous cannot conquer their self-esteem issues, although of course I know it is not so simplistic as that. His Sean Cody work suggests to me he cannot be completely straight, whatever he tells people. I am such a sucker for that handsome fresh face, but would much more interested in whats going on in that head>unfortunately I dont have the $$$$ it would take to find out.........

[leigh.bess.toad]

unfortunately I dont have the $$$$ it would take to find out.........

 

Nor the clinical expertise or training, either.

[hornytwells]

Nor the clinical expertise or training, either.

 

How do you know I don't Lee?

[leigh.bess.toad]

How do you know I don't Lee?

 

Well, knowing the psychotics you do deal with on a regular basis every day, maybe you do after all. All that space for resonance instead of brains and all.

[bcohen7719]

Very interested in Glenn's perspective and sounds right on the money. It shouldn't, but it never ceases to amaze me, why a guy so gorgeous cannot conquer their self-esteem issues, although of course I know it is not so simplistic as that. His Sean Cody work suggests to me he cannot be completely straight, whatever he tells people. I am such a sucker for that handsome fresh face, but would much more interested in whats going on in that head>unfortunately I dont have the $$$$ it would take to find out.........

 

Many gorgeous men obsess about their looks until their dying day. Yes Simon is gorgeous...yet he had

a nose job because it wasn't good enough. It never ends.

 

BC

[leigh.bess.toad]

Many gorgeous men obsess about their looks until their dying day.

 

BC

 

I do not.

[DeeGeeBee]

You are correct. He has been active in NYC lately.

Actually, I seem to recall seeing his ads popping up sporadically in the past month.

[actor61]

Flipping the middle finger. That is a pure turnoff for me.

 

Flipping the middle finger in an ad is a red flag for me too. It's like "Ask Me" in the price section. Both are signs to me that read "Move On."

[gallahadesquire]

I'm afraid to ask: Why is the review in Daddy's Reviews on Simon Dexter non-existant?

[DeeGeeBee]

Perhaps because he removes his ads rather quickly after scoring with a few clients (it takes 2-3 weeks, sometimes more, for Daddy to post a review, and I'm certain Simon is aware of this site)... He may also change his 'escorting' phone # often by using pre-paid services, Google Voice, etc. Regardless, Daddy needs certain information in order to vet a review, and it's likely Simon makes sure to stay one step ahead.

 

I'm afraid to ask: Why is the review in Daddy's Reviews on Simon Dexter non-existant?

[DeeGeeBee]

This 2011 post was pulled to the top of the Deli Forum thread list as a member recently posted a comment to the thread. What is interesting is that the review has not been posted. In the many years that Simon Dexter/Harley/Dax Dexter has been escorting, not one review can be found regarding his services, at least not here, the most reliable, well-vetted male escort review site. I assume Daddy was not able to properly 'locate' Dexter via ad link or phone #, and if that's the case, then cagey Dexter indeed changes his contact information regularly, and pulls his ads. Thus, our only source of feedback regarding Simon Dexter is the Forum. I truly hope the several threads and many comments regarding this 'escort' are viewed by any one considering hiring him.

I recently had a very unpleasant experience with porn star Simon Dexter AKA Harley.

 

His link:

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=233262&scid=63246980&sp=1&pos=0&locid=0&iid=104148

 

I Just submitted a review on Daddy's. I hope it will be up and running soon.

 

Admin note: we look forward to reading your review after it has been vetted.

 

Can anybody else please let me know if this was a singular incident or if he had a similar unpleasant experience with him?

 

Thank you.

[seeker630]

This 2011 post was pulled to the top of the Deli Forum thread list as a member recently posted a comment to the thread. What is interesting is that the review has not been posted. In the many years that Simon Dexter/Harley/Dax Dexter has been escorting, not one review can be found regarding his services, at least not here, the most reliable, well-vetted male escort review site. I assume Daddy was not able to properly 'locate' Dexter via ad link or phone #, and if that's the case, then cagey Dexter indeed changes his contact information regularly, and pulls his ads. Thus, our only source of feedback regarding Simon Dexter is the Forum. I truly hope the several posts and many comments regarding this 'escort' are viewed by any one considering hiring him.

 

There were reviews but they were removed when he retired, apparently. (Set the filter to 'inactive' and you'll see an entry labeled 'Retired', but with no reviews visible.)

[DeeGeeBee]

Interesting! Thanks!

 

There were reviews but they were removed when he retired, apparently. (Set the filter to 'inactive' and you'll see an entry labeled 'Retired', but with no reviews visible.)

[bcohen7719]

Here's a copy of the missing review of Simon Dexter.

 

BC

 

http://movies.groups.yahoo.com/group/simondexter/message/2

[DeeGeeBee]

Thanks... A Forum member posted the link in another thread on Dexter today as well. Still, one would think there would exist more reviews for an escort who seems to be well known.. Well, he's becoming well known as 'one to avoid.'

 

 

Here's a copy of the missing review of Simon Dexter.

 

BC

 

http://movies.groups.yahoo.com/group/simondexter/message/2

[Lewis H]

I saw Simon Dexter when he first came out as Dylan Daxx, but I didn't write a review. My experience wasn't stellar, but neither did I find him abominable. It was just so lackluster to the point that it didn't merit the effort needed to write a review one way or the other, and frankly can barely remember it. I seem to recall that in our session he tried but didn't succeed much, he was otherwise very pleasant, and he looked as hot as he does in his pics but wasn't too interested in me. But I just chalked it up to lack of chemistry back then. It was only later that his reputation started growing, especially with the dirty laundry of his tumultuous personal relationship that got aired online.

[bcohen7719]

I saw Simon Dexter when he first came out as Dylan Daxx, but I didn't write a review. My experience wasn't stellar, but neither did I find him abominable. It was just so lackluster to the point that it didn't merit the effort needed to write a review one way or the other, and frankly can barely remember it. I seem to recall that in our session he tried but didn't succeed much, he was otherwise very pleasant, and he looked as hot as he does in his pics but wasn't too interested in me. But I just chalked it up to lack of chemistry back then. It was only later that his reputation started growing, especially with the dirty laundry of his tumultuous personal relationship that got aired online.

 

LW,

 

Not to be hypercritical, but one should find such persons in the professional male sex worker field much

more problematic and accountable (at least, within this forum).

 

It is agreed that Simon is extremely nice--extraordinarily polite (my own personal experience).

 

But if one advertises certain services, either directly or through implication, then takes money for them, but knows in advance one has--in all cases that we know of--no interest nor inclination nor abilities in providing such services, what is that called?

 

Another forum member called this behavior "predatory." I think that is spot-on.

 

If such behavior is continued repeatedly with deliberate impunity, without remorse, with clients who are

very much older, why should this not be considered a form of financial elder abuse?

 

BC

[Scorpio]

LW,

 

Not to be hypercritical, but one should find such persons in the professional male sex worker field much

more problematic and accountable (at least, within this forum).

 

It is agreed that Simon is extremely nice--extraordinarily polite (my own personal experience).

 

But if one advertises certain services, either directly or through implication, then takes money for them, but knows in advance one has--in all cases that we know of--no interest nor inclination nor abilities in providing such services, what is that called?

 

Another forum member called this behavior "predatory." I think that is spot-on.

 

If such behavior is continued repeatedly with deliberate impunity, without remorse, with clients who are

very much older, why should this not be considered a form of financial elder abuse?

 

BC

 

BC, it's unfortunate that you had a bad experience. However, you are obviously capable of researching the Internet and this forums archives. So I'm curious, did you search Simon Dexter with as much fervor PRE-appointment as you seem to have exhausted POST-appointment? Whether or not LW shared his appointment and experience at the initial outing, there was plenty of other data available in the archives regarding Simon's MO. And it's information that has been available since he first started escorting in 2009:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?70705-Sean-Cody-Harley-through-Forrest-Meetings&highlight=simon+dexter

 

Yes, Simon should be avoided. But as long as clients keep hiring him expecting that they are going to be the expectation to the rule, ignoring all the available warning signs, then he will continue to advertise.

 

As suggestion, so you don't find yourself in the same position again, perhaps you should evaluate the type escort you seem to pursue. This isn't the first time, you've had a negative experience. I seem to recall a thread in which you mentioned that you submitted a batch of 5 or 6 negative reviews at once for various misrepresentations.

 

None of this excuses Simon's behavior and hopefully he will eventually be shut down, but sometimes rather trying to explain someone else's bad behavior; we need to determine what makes us tick first.

[bcohen7719]

BC, it's unfortunate that you had a bad experience. However, you are obviously capable of researching the Internet and this forums archives. So I'm curious, did you search Simon Dexter with as much fervor PRE-appointment as you seem to have exhausted POST-appointment? Whether or not LW shared his appointment and experience at the initial outing, there was plenty of other data available in the archives regarding Simon's MO. And it's information that has been available since he first started escorting in 2009:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?70705-Sean-Cody-Harley-through-Forrest-Meetings&highlight=simon+dexter

 

Yes, Simon should be avoided. But as long as clients keep hiring him expecting that they are going to be the expectation to the rule, ignoring all the available warning signs, then he will continue to advertise.

 

As suggestion, so you don't find yourself in the same position again, perhaps you should evaluate the type escort you seem to pursue. This isn't the first time, you've had a negative experience. I seem to recall a thread in which you mentioned that you submitted a batch of 5 or 6 negative reviews at once for various misrepresentations.

 

None of this excuses Simon's behavior and hopefully he will eventually be shut down, but sometimes rather trying to explain someone else's bad behavior; we need to determine what makes us tick first.

 

Scorpio,

 

You are absolutely right. Everyone should do research on this forum first.

 

I actually did that.

 

To myself, I was thinking: "Well, perhaps everyone else was approaching this guy

the wrong way. Simon was always said to be polite. He never "beat anyone up."

He doesn't appear to be dangerous Maybe my experience will be different.

I'll give it a try."

 

No excuses, again--you are right, one shouldn't do this. And I've been with

escorts in the past who put up fake pictures and who were miserable experiences.

 

But Simon is in a class by himself. I truly

believe he is a predatory fraudster or scam artist of a special type.

 

To be fair, Scorpio, I will say again he is extremely nice and polite.

 

I understand your very logical and valuable message of "caveat emptor." I'm repeating this

information on the forum strictly to convince others not to give in

to temptation the way I did.

 

BC