When Do Escorts Become a Piece of Meat For You?

[Bosguy]

I guess I'm a very fortunate man, because I have never had reason to consider an escort a "piece of meat" nor have they ever treated me as a "wallet with legs". The mutual respect has always been there from initial contact to final departing with both expressing mutual thanks in a manner of our choosing--not because either of us HAVE to but rather because we WANT to!

 

I'm sorry for any guys--client or escort-- who have not or do not have this MUTUAL feeling

 

Boston Bill

[whipped guy]

That's nice of you...

Well, in all modesty I have been told on more than one occasion that I am a decent guy... or at least have acted in a somewhat nice fashion... and you just did as well... and that ain't a bad thing...

Why are you thanking your dentist?

Why not... but I chose a dentist because it was one of the professions that you referenced...

Is your mouth and/or breath so terrible that a even a professional would be challenged to stomach cleaning your teeth?

Now that's funny...;) However, if I had chosen a lawyer as the professional in question something tells me that it might have provoked an even funnier response!

 

Again, just my two cents... and to get back on topic... I don't treat working guys like pieces of meat.

[Phil_musc]

Yes, gentlemen, mea culpa - I'm so sorry to have taken the thread off course with my semi-diatribe about etiquette. I actually agree with you, WG, and my experiences - by and large - have been ones of mutual respect and regard. And - even though you might not get it from my postings on this thread - I too have been called a nice guy and I try to be kind and respectful to all people. But the etiquette in question here isn't about being nice, it's about business. While they are not mutually exclusive concepts, they exist and operate independent of each other. Nice is nice and business is business. Mutually respectful treatment is more at home in the world of business than in the world of nice. The first "thank you" should come from the financial beneficiary; if you are so moved, the proper client response would seem to be "you're welcome and thank you. I had a wonderful time." But to (once again) bring us back to the topic, I don't think I ever treat an escort like a piece of meat - but then when I was in my twenties and looking for love in all the wrong places, I didn't treat my guys like that either. I would think that those who are guilty of treating escorts like meat are probably also guilty of treating other guys that they may have or want to have sex with in the same way. To me, respect is something that is owed to people simply because they are - they do not have to earn it; it is how I treat my fellow human beings. Respect can be lost (and re-earned - it doesn't always have to be a downward spiral). But everyone starts at the top with a clean slate - how they treat me and others determines whether they keep my respect.

[Phil_musc]

Thanks, Steven, for chiming in. I'm glad you at least understand what I'm saying (even more impressive since English is not your first language). Perhaps as a European you understand our American preoccupation with being nice and wanting everyone to like us so that protocol and etiquette get lost in the shuffle.