LOVE COMPANIONS CONNECTION and ESCORTING

[NYTomcat]

I apologize LEO for stealing this from another thread. But this little gem summed up so well what my point was when I posted this I had to tie this in. Plus I didn't want this languishing in gaybor's threads alone

 

Pardon me if I'm a bit late for this thread, but I wanted to add a few thoughts of my own.

 

The most successful client relationships have come from people who I personally felt very strong connections with. Accordingly, as tenderloin recently asked about why it doesn't happen more often, I think it's "natural" but should be proceeded with an occasional reality check. If I see a client regularly, feel a strong connection with them, and don't feel as though they're basically in love with me...well, I'd feel something was wrong, honestly. Even captives come to love their captors! So, I think it's only inevitable that a good professional relationship should become somewhat emotional and the lines "blur". Of course, I'm not speaking about clients who hire for just an hour...with an occasional overnight--this applies to clients who would find it insulting to hire for just an hour...and only hire their escort for longer engagements (1+ nights at a time). In those cases, with that much time spent together, emotional attachments should occur. I believe that is part of the fantasy that the client is looking for...someone to share moments in their life with. People have many different paths in life and sometimes just having someone around to talk to about it makes all the difference. There's nothing wrong with that person being an escort. Just don't actually believe that you're not paying for that connection--you're paying for access to the person. Money stops, access stops. The connection is real. But, escorts have to make money and cannot continue to hang around when there is no money to be made. That would be like continuing to work at an office after being laid off. You look for another job. Escorts look for another client. It's simple.

 

On that note, when I find guys that I'm entertained by, I've noticed lately that I start to "expense them". I guess, as long as they're cheaper than out-right hiring someone, I'm getting a good deal. And in cases where I do meet someone I think is worth more than just my entertainment, even my own mother questions me on if I think they're around for money or "the ride" that my life provides.