Escorts and Oral

[lithen]

I've been reading escort reviews and a lot of them consist of escorts giving clients oral. I assume they suck their clients without protection?

 

I've hired numerous escorts that suck great (without condom) and ate my load too.

 

I always suck my guys bare and ask them to cum in my mouth, but I never fuck guys bareback.

 

Will this info about the escort change the way you hire escorts?

 

I also read that catching HIV from oral is very low, and any precum, bodily fluids that you swallow is killed by the stomach acid.. this is not the case if you have a cut in your mouth. How true is this?

 

how do you guys stay safe?

 

just something on my mind.. please comment :/

[MsGuy]

The good news: Some factor in human saliva inhibits the HIV virus.

http://www.gaylib.com/aids/aids22.htm

 

The bad news: Oral sex still isn't 100% safe. The infection rate from unprotected oral sex is very low but not negligible. How low? No one really knows. Guesstimates run from less than 1% of new HIV cases to 5%+. Depends on who's doing the estimating.

 

A British survey of over 1200 cases of HIV released last fall found that about 2.9% of the new infections were from oral sex, but qualified that by stating that the % was probably biased to the high side by several factors in how the survey was conducted.

[sorry but I've lost the link to that survey.]

[KMEM]

As has been repeated many times here and elsewhere, the only completely safe visitation with another is abstinence. That doesn't seem like as much fun as thinking about visitation should. After that, knowing as much as possible about your friendly contact would be a plus. Nothing is ever completely safe. Do you feel safe driving home on the expressway? If you do, you are in a minority and likely wrong. Therefore, every thing you do to provide safe encounters is to your advantage. Is sex with an HIV+ person perfectly OK? One can take a LOT of care but this cannot be as safe as an encounter with an HIV- person, can it? The bottom line is you must take responsibility for your own safety as best you can. That means, at the very least, taking whatever is reported to you beforehand with a huge grain of salt.

 

There is no way to know WHO is safe but there are ways to try to determine who is SAFER.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[whipped guy]

I hate to sound as though I am preaching, but I need to add my two cents to the above posts all of which make valid points.

 

It is the HIV virus coming into contact with mucus membranes that facilitates transmission… and while the mucus membrane linings of the vagina and rectum are the most “traditional” methods of transmission, it must be remembered that mucus membranes are also present in the oral cavity as well… and while the chances of infection are lower a possibility sill exists. Add to the this the above mentioned mouth sores… and couple this with the fact that virtually every individual has had at one time or another a brush with gingivitis (bleeding gums)… not to mention the possibility of periodontitis (the next step up from gingivitis) and the risks can escalate from there. Now, how about a cut or scratch on the penis or balls. I recently read in a blog that shaving one balls rarely results in any injury… well nothing is 100 percent fool proof and I am sure a few individuals who monitor this forum have had an accident or two along the way. And by the way something as seemingly innocuous as chapped or cracked lips can facilitate HIV transmission…

 

It is important to remember that while it is obvious that HIV-plus individuals will most likely have semen containing high concentrations of the virus, pre-cum from such an individual is not completely devoid of HIV by any stretch of the imagination…Furthermore, it is imperative to consider that in addition to HIV other STDs can be transmitted by oral sex. Therefore, one must weigh the risks and make an informed decision as to how far one wants to go with oral sex and if indeed he wants to go there at all… without protection that is.