Do you feel more comfortable going to apts or hotels?

[whipped guy]

Yes, keep it clean!

 

A tip to escorts who host in-calls: try to have your bathroom set up to be user-friendly for the client. Clean towels, in particular, are much appreciated!!

 

Yes! That is a good tip and it is something that I meant to mention in my posing above. When I go to a guy I want him to be located in a safe area of town and also want the place to be CLEAN... and especially the bathroom. I won't reiterate what I have seen in some restrooms... well just use your imagination, think of the worst... and that's it! Also, too many times after the session I have been handed a grungy and damp towel... well no thanks!! Also, I would appreciate if there was a place to hang my coat and other belongings so that they can be kept in semi-decent order. When hosting in my hotel room I always make sure that there are extra clean towels and the escort has a space to store his belongings. It is amazing as to how many guys just don't "get it" in this regard. Now I am far from a clean-freak, but when I am going to get down and dirty... I don't want to do it in a dirty environment. Several guys have lost my business because that failed to act sensibly in this regard. Plus, keeping the place clean and a fresh towel is not going to break the bank and cut into their profit margin! Still, to some that is too much effort... but it is definitely worth the effort in the long run.

[Guest greatness]

hmm

 

If they do them properly...

 

I generally prefer hotels but I'll admit it's mainly because someone ELSE handles cleanup and laundry.

[GoodFella69]

My View: Upscale Hotels are Best for Superb Escort Sex.

 

Joey,

Thanks for launching this important thread.

 

From a Client's perspective, I greatly prefer to visit escorts and/or masseurs in an upscale hotel (either their hotel room or mine).

 

That said, I've previously scheduled several in-call appointments at escorts' homes. Some working guys maintain immaculate and well-appointed home environments. It's evident they have gone the extra mile to make their in-call experiences pleasant and enjoyable (unscented candles, soft lighting and sensual music, fresh/clean linens, offered bottled water or a glass of wine, etc.)

 

On the other hand, I've had too many disastrous in-call experiences for a variety of reasons, including:

1) escort's roommate or boyfriend is in the apartment during our session--awkward!

2) escort smokes (even though his ad says otherwise) and his apartment reeks of smoke...and he even lights one up after our sex.

3) escort's place is filthy (dirty dishes and clothes stacked everywhere), bathroom smells of urine, the bed covers stained, etc.

4) escort lives in an undesirable neighborhood and/or high-crime apt. complex.

5. Securing safe parking at the escort's home is a challenge. I once had my car towed because I parked in the escort's condo parking area and he forgot to inform me I needed a validation to park there.

escort had two dogs and allowed them to have the run of the place--one dog even jumped on the bed with us twice during sex.

6. The escort's doorbell rang a couple of times during our session (he apologetically interrupted our sex to answer the door for a neighbor and for the mailman).

7. The escort's apartment had ultra-thin walls and his neighbor's infant cried, dog barked & television blared throughout our encounter.

8. The LAST in-call I scheduled, the escort seriously instructed me on how to open and quietly crawl out his first-floor bedroom window in the event his boyfriend arrived home from work early (fortunately, I didn't have to exit the window, but was on edge the entire time...and not in a good way)! He explained that his lover had no idea he was a part-time escort!

 

I've learned my lesson over the last 5 years of hiring hot dudes: (A) Secure an upscale hotel room for our sex romp; (B) call a well-reviewed escort who is visiting town and staying at a nice hotel; or © host the escort at my place ONLY if I've seen the guy previously and know him to be discrete and trustworthy.

[Guest]

Well, I wouldn't have someone at my place because I have a partner, but even before I did, I would never give someone my address unless I knew them first, because I wouldn't want a scene if the escort were lying about himself and I needed to send him away. I prefer to see escorts at their place first. If they lie about their appearance, it's easy for me to tell them that due to their dishonesty, I will not go through with the appointment, and simply leave. If the escort is well-reviewed here, I might host them at my hotel, but I will generally look for in-calls first. I don't care what their place looks like. I'm just having sex with an escort, not entertaining guests. If I were that germ-phobic, I wouldn't have sex with sex workers, for God's sake. On rare occasions, if there's an escort in town that I really want to hook up with who does only outcalls, I'll get an inexpensive room through Priceline. But I would have to be fairly obsessed with the guy to go to all that trouble.

I'm not too concerned about others finding out, especially since I have an open relationship (although we do things discreetly). I suppose if I were very concerned about privacy, I would avoid hotels with closed-circuit monitoring, and meet in bargain hotels with outside corridors such as TraveLodges, where there's no one to nosily monitor who's coming and going.

I recently had an escort come over to my hotel in a gated resort hotel. He had to give me his full real name and I had to leave mine, so he could show the guard his ID, and tell him who he was going to. It wasn't a problem for me, but I could see how it could be a problem for a number of clients or escorts. Escorts sometimes seem reluctant to even tell me their real first name, for reasons I can't understand. Do they think I'm going to run to the press or something? Not too long ago, I had an escort refuse to even let me call him by his first name (I just like to call people by their real first names, given the intimacy of the act)--yet he had his face and body on multiple escort websites. What was he afraid of--that I would go running through the streets saying "Kevin is an escort! Kevin is an escort!" ??

[whipped guy]

Q

 

Joey. Thanks for launching this important thread.

Ditto!

From a Client's perspective, I greatly prefer to visit escorts and/or masseurs in an upscale hotel (either their hotel room or mine).

Recently I saw a favorite and well reviewed guy at his hotel… a major chain… but the heating system was not working properly and in the dead of winter we were going at it with the window open… and that was only one thing that was wrong with the room. He apologized, but the encounter was so much fun I really could not care… but still things would have been better if the property were a bit more upscale… but then again escorts who travel need to keep costs down.

 

That said, I've previously scheduled several in-call appointments at escorts' homes. Some working guys maintain immaculate and well-appointed home environments. It's evident they have gone the extra mile to make their in-call experiences pleasant and enjoyable (unscented candles, soft lighting and sensual music, fresh/clean linens, offered bottled water or a glass of wine, etc.)

 

That describes the long retired Reece Rothmeier’s apartment... Shoot! He was a class act when it came to all aspects of escorting… However many S&M specialists seem to think that the act should be done in the raunchy environment in which they live… I don't need or want that type of "local color" to enjoy myself! Yuck!

 

I've had too many disastrous in-call experiences for a variety of reasons, including: escort's roommate or boyfriend is in the apartment during our session--awkward!

Even worse… I have heard cases of the girlfriend being in the other room...

escort smokes (even though his ad says otherwise) and his apartment reeks of smoke...and he even lights one up after our sex.

That is definitely a deal breaker…

escort's place is filthy (dirty dishes and clothes stacked everywhere), bathroom smells of urine, the bed covers stained, etc.

This is the type of situation where if the guy is really hot you definitely do the hotel hookup thing...

escort lives in an undesirable neighborhood and/or high-crime apt. complex.

I try to check out the neighborhood ahead of time if possible in the daytime. I did cancel once when I felt that it would be unsafe to visit after dark and the escort did not do outcalls.

escort had two dogs and allowed them to have the run of the place--one dog even jumped on the bed with us twice during sex.[/Quote]

I hate having to make love to the pets before and after the session… or even sometimes during… and cats are worse than dogs!

The LAST in-call I scheduled, the escort seriously instructed me on how to open and quietly crawl out his first-floor bedroom window in the event his boyfriend arrived home from work early (fortunately, I didn't have to exit the window, but was on edge the entire time...and not in a good way)! He explained that his lover had no idea he was a part-time escort!

That is way too funny!!!!!

I've learned my lesson over the last 5 years of hiring hot dudes…

Life is definitely a learning experience indeed! Plus, to quote one of our esteemed fellow posters from Brooklyn: “Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you wanted!”

[JoeyBryant]

Joey,

Thanks for launching this important thread.

 

8. The LAST in-call I scheduled, the escort seriously instructed me on how to open and quietly crawl out his first-floor bedroom window in the event his boyfriend arrived home from work early (fortunately, I didn't have to exit the window, but was on edge the entire time...and not in a good way)! He explained that his lover had no idea he was a part-time escort!

 

Of course!

 

But I'm sorry, as serious and ridiculous as the encounters sounded; I just could not stop laughing lol.

[SoCal]

Would you be comfortable at your place just because its your place, or because of security in hotels or the possibility of 'something going down'?

 

So here's a thought I don't think I've seen on this thread re: meeting an escort at a hotel - law enforcement concerns? For some silly reason I picture various reality TV shows with the vice squad in one motel room and the "escort" in the other, waiting to barge in as soon as the money is pulled out

 

Granted - a silly concern if you know the escort, if he's well reviewed, etc. But on occasion when I find someone interesting they'll tell me they are at some hotel/motel or another, and my mind starts to get wrapped up in the concern I'm walking into a "sting"?

 

About 12 years ago a well reviewed escort friend of mine had this happen to him in reverse - he got "stung" going to a motel to meet a "client" who turned out to be the local PD. But he told me the police mentioned doing the sting both ways, and it worked.

 

Anyway - not a concern to me as much nowadays as I'm not really meeting "new" un-reviewed escorts - but in my "braver" days it was a concern.

 

Any thoughts?

[+ newatthis]

...the escort seriously instructed me on how to open and quietly crawl out his first-floor bedroom window in the event his boyfriend arrived home from work early...

A dancer/escort I knew in Montreal once regaled me with the tale of how he was unceremoniously hustled out the bedroom window, his shoes thrown after him, when his client's live-in boyfriend showed up unexpectedly. (He, of course, had not been told that his client had a boyfriend.)

[GoodFella69]

That's Hot...I Think!

 

Even worse… I have heard cases of the girlfriend being in the other room...

 

Whipped Guy: Are you serious? You were with an escort whose girlfriend waited in the next room while you two did The Dirty Deed? That would either be way awkward...OR really, really HOT! I just can't decide which one.

[whipped guy]

The Girlfriend Factor

 

Whipped Guy: Are you serious? You were with an escort whose girlfriend waited in the next room while you two did The Dirty Deed? That would either be way awkward...OR really, really HOT! I just can't decide which one.

 

Goodfella...No! Not a personal experience... but I did hear of a situation where that actually did happen. It seems the girlfriend was looking to get some action herself and kept howling from an adjacent room, “Are you done there already!” Of course I always picture the bimbo looking as hot as ever, wearing some sort of skin tight skimpy bit of nothing, filling her nails, and chewing on bonbons alla Peg Bundy!

 

Now as you say that situation could either be awkward (as it was in this case) or possibly really hot.

 

Now the closest I ever came to such a scenario concerned a now (fortunately) retired escort who shall be nameless because he was a con artist. Long story! The session really was a total bust… and at the conclusion as I was leaving he introduced me to a friend who happened to be a girl (not sure how “friendly”) who was temporarily (?) staying with him. Evidentially she had been out and was told it would be “safe” to return at a certain hour. She was blond, quite attractive and spoke with a sexy Australian accent. I remember complementing her on her appearance and then thought to myself that the two-hour session might have been more productive if she had been part of the deal…

 

Of course, there was the escort who spent the entire session lamenting the fact that he had just broken up with his girlfriend… Now I had been with this guy several times previously and knew he had a girlfriend. He even sent me a picture of her, and she was a looker. However on this particular occasion he was so distraught over loosing this babe that he really had let himself go downhill appearance-wise. Plus, he was so upet and frustrated that he took out his S&M frustrations on me and even ignored my “safe word”… It was out last outing. One of these days I am going to write a book…

 

I would bet that most guys here really don’t want to know that an escort has a girlfriend and that he might be thinking of her while he is with a client.