ONE MESSED UP NIGHT

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

Well lets see where to begin, I was out with a friend/business partner this evening and got a call from a person I hadnt seen in quite some time. I looked at the time and decided why not and confirmed a time to meet at the hotel bar down the road a bit. I had my friend drop me off on his way home and had a nice time with the individual, well stupid me and I dont really drink all that much didnt realize he was LIT off his ass. The tab came around he was broke and asked if I could pay for it and he would reimburse me when we got to his place. I had 42 cents left after the total. I drove him home and went to the bedroom to find him passed out on the bed, could not wake him up if I had to. Stayed for an hour, tried several phone numbers of friends for a ride and then made the dreadful walk of about 60 block home. My question is this, do I charge him for the hour, we where together a total of 4 hours?

[Guest Musclebearshare]

Ah, the glamourous life of an escort!

 

What was the agreement beforehand? I think it would be decent of you to consider what his expectations were in determining how much you should ask him for. If he's wealthy and you're pretty sure it's not a big deal for him, then maybe that's not so important. There's also the question of whether you expect to/want to see him again - but only you know what you can ask for without leaving a bad enough taste in his mouth that he won't be coming back.

 

Of course, if he has a decent bone in his body and isn't poverty stricken, he should pay you for an all-nighter, after leaving you stranded like that, or do something really nice for you to make it up.

 

It makes a good story - at least you've already got that! :-)

 

Michael

[Will]

I think you should first collect what he owes you for the bar tab, in addition to the cab fare that you should have been able to spend. Furtermore, he should pay you for your four hours. Perhaps not at your usual escort rate; but you should certainly come out of it with AT LEAST as much as you'd have earned from him in an hour if he had not been drunk.

 

You certainly don't do yourself any good by letting this pass. You don't do him any good, either. If he doesn't have a drinking problem, he'll be embarrassed and pay up. If he does have a drinking problem, he may still be embarrassed and pay up; but he might also think about how he got himself -- and you -- into that fix. Drunk or sober, adults are responsible for their behavior, and he owes you big time.