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Well, folks, my streak of great newbies has taken a pause! 🤣 On RM, giving this experience 3 stars (which technically means “good”) feels generous. What was good? The body was hot. The provider was handsome. The room was clean. The photos are accurate. What was poor? He wasn't ready on time. The room was steamy, and the floors were slippery from a shower. His skin was wet in the beginning, and then later, when mine was damp, he complained about it! He took a phone call during the session. He just lay there. There was no enjoyable end to this experience. 

From the start, there was a disconnect between what I clearly communicated and what was delivered. I’m very explicit about expectations, and those expectations were not met. At times, the experience felt dismissive to the point of being gaslighting.

Energy and engagement were low throughout. He was vaping, which I said was fine when he asked. But then it often felt like he was just physically present rather than actively participating. At one point, he even seemed drowsy or disengaged.

Communication was another issue. Early on, I noted that he didn’t seem very into it, and he insisted he was doing fine. I specifically requested deeper, more involved kissing—something I had clearly outlined beforehand (I literally say in every request, "very important - if you don't make out and use tongue, we're not a good match")—but that never happened. Instead, it was limited to brief, surface-level kisses. When I brought this up, he claimed he was giving me more than usual and that he doesn’t typically kiss, which directly contradicted what I had already made clear in advance.

When things progressed, the effort level didn’t improve. He remained largely passive, which made the experience very non-fantasy and one-sided. For the level of resources involved, I expect mutual engagement and fantasy. You gotta work, you know.

There were also logistical issues. We initially scheduled for 10 am, and he didn't respond to messages beginning at 8:30 am. Then, finally, moments before 10 was like "I'm ready now." Sorry, no. So I asked if arriving between 11 am and 11:30 am was okay, and he agreed. When I arrived (11:10 am - with a 20-minute warning I was leaving), he wasn’t ready, and I had to wait (about 5-10 minutes) while he finished getting prepared. Once he was in the room and I confirmed he was ready, I started the playlist I use, which is 59 minutes long (keeps me in the moment and out of my head about time). We then had to revisit details I had already communicated. At one point, he even took a phone call mid-session, which further disrupted the experience.

The session also ended earlier than expected, despite his claim that I received the full time. To be clear, I ended the session because it was not good. He then tried to say I was "forfeiting my time," but I was very clear that I was leaving because the session was not good and he was not engaged. He checked his time and said, "Well, you got your hour anyway." No, sir. When I arrived, I waited for you to finish getting ready. And then started the playlist that tracks the time when you said you were. He wanted to argue that time started when I arrived. Yes, when you are ready. Not when you are not. There were 15 minutes left in the playlist.

He was being a little whiny about everything. Like, he really thought he was doing great. We all know there are some great companions out there; this was not one of them. 

Overall, the experience lacked preparation, attentiveness, and follow-through. Clear expectations were set in advance, but they were not respected.

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