Oliver in SF?

[musclvr]

Found his ad on masseurfinder.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44969/

He's cute and only does outcalls. I get the sense that more than therapeutic might be on the table. He's ad was saying "available now" but no answer when I called.

Any experience here? I didn't find any threads when I seared "44969" and Oliver generated way too many hits to scroll through.

 

[+ soberguy]

I"ve met with Oliver twice, at my hotel, when working in San Francisco.   His massage is exceptional.  He doesn't use a table which is usually a show stopper for me but I've encouraged him to get a face cradle for a bed massage and he did tell me he'd look into it.  He has a great touch, very thorough stretching, and has always gone over the time - he puts an incredible amount of physical effort into his work.  His affect is a bit quirky and he's had very interesting life experiences.   He dislikes texting and really only communicates through direct phone calls except for directions.  YEMV but I plan to repeat regularly.  If you keep trying to connect, I hope it'll be worth it.

[Moke]

Thanks for this detailed report. Looks like a nice guy. Can I ask 2 follow ups?

 

- how tall is he?

 

- any extras? 

[+ soberguy]

He's 5'7" or 5'8", maybe?  I'm not good at judging that actually.  I'm 5'11" and he seemed very compact - super low body fat.  I'm never quite sure what to say about extras as that topic is so wide but I will say a) I believe he enjoyed massaging me, b) he put a ton of effort into it, and c) I had a really nice time through out the whole massage.  Also, he's from the UK which, for me, added to his shy charm.

[musclvr]

Thanks very much, soberguy. That's really helpful.

I got impatient for Oliver to return my call and found another masseur. Then Oliver called me back to say that he was available as I was getting in my ride. I sent Oliver's call to voicemail, not wanting to cancel at the last minute on the other masseur, even though Oliver was my first choice. What I did was the right thing to do but given my experience with that masseur and what you wrote about Oliver, I wish that I had done the wrong thing. 😇

[Moke]

2 hours ago, musclvr said:

Thanks very much, soberguy. That's really helpful.

I got impatient for Oliver to return my call and found another masseur. Then Oliver called me back to say that he was available as I was getting in my ride. I sent Oliver's call to voicemail, not wanting to cancel at the last minute on the other masseur, even though Oliver was my first choice. What I did was the right thing to do but given my experience with that masseur and what you wrote about Oliver, I wish that I had done the wrong thing. 😇

Who was the wrong choice and why?

[musclvr]

3 hours ago, Moke said:

Who was the wrong choice and why?

I won't disclose the name because he was a nice guy who delivered a good massage. The pictures he uses in his profile are outdated so I was disappointed when he opened the door. Yeah, I know, totally superficial.

I don't expect an Adonis, and usually avoid them when searching ads on rentmasseur because Adonis' massage skills are likely poor and more of a rub & tug.. In the situation yesterday, I felt deceived because of the delta between the ad pictures vs. reality.

[musclvr]

On 1/12/2025 at 8:59 AM, soberguy said:

I"ve met with Oliver twice, at my hotel, when working in San Francisco.   His massage is exceptional.  He doesn't use a table which is usually a show stopper for me but I've encouraged him to get a face cradle for a bed massage and he did tell me he'd look into it.  He has a great touch, very thorough stretching, and has always gone over the time - he puts an incredible amount of physical effort into his work.  His affect is a bit quirky and he's had very interesting life experiences.   He dislikes texting and really only communicates through direct phone calls except for directions.  YEMV but I plan to repeat regularly.  If you keep trying to connect, I hope it'll be worth it.

I booked a session with Oliver. I agree with everything soberguy wrote in this post and his subsequent one. I will definitely see Oliver again when I'm back in SF and can host.

The massage was good and the stretching was even better. He was engaged the entire time and was working to give me a great massage. He brought a head cradle, which worked well with the massage on the bed.

He went way over time in our session but the time passed quickly. I paid him extra, proportional to the amount of time he spent in the session.

He is smart/educated, a good conversationalist when you engage him, and quiet when you don't. He checked in frequently about how I was doing.

His pictures are accurate.