411 Bobbymass visiting PHILLY

[gshock]

Any experience? 

 

https://rentmasseur.com/Bobbymass

[Johnrom]

This guy is 6 foot 8 inches tall.  Wow 🤩 

[Wanderoz]

This one pushes all my buttons and then some.  Hope someone has been lucky enough to share an experience.

[Lohengrin1979]

Doesn’t list massage modalities but lists HIV status. The mystery deepens. Someone go investigate!

[Benshugo]

Reached out, he says same day appointments only, has no travel schedule but his profile makes it sound like he's visiting from FL, and he's staying at a hotel, so probably a bed massage.

[Wanderoz]

Wish he would come down to DC!

[utopia]

Bumping Bobby...anyone had the pleasure?

[YahooLucifer]

I have scoop.  He's currently visiting Kansas City.  He has been in the US from Russia for under two months.  Bed massage, which is never my favorite.  However, excellent technique for the massage.  Strong, with obvious training and experience.

Nice guy, but a big language barrier as English is new to him (even though massage isn't).  He is a little less defined than in his pictures, but still very fit and he has been blessed.  Nude throughout the massage.

Extras . . . more difficult for him to explain with the language barrier -- he is using Google Translate for much of the communication - but the short answer is a HE upcharge of $40 on his base rate of $170.  I would definitely repeat -- I'm hoping the great massage and good extras become better as he acclimates to the US.  

[Capitano]

Yep, there is that $40 upcharge, which is a deal breaker for me because it sets the stage in a wrong way. The total rate is acceptable, especially for 90 minutes (220+40), but the message is that he hates doing it. I don't want interaction with someone who is deep down repulsed by it. This line of work just isn't for a hot straight guy who hates doing it but can't resist because the money is too good IMHO. It just cannot work in the long run.

BTW, he didn't disclose the surcharge right away, only when asked, which suggests that the unsuspecting client is in for a mood-killing upcharge or that infamous and so demeaning "now you can finish yourself" that so many Eastern European & Russian masseurs do. And another indicator that he doesn't want to do it, and that I should pass despite him being hot and trained.

Edited June 8, 2024 by Capitano

[Trick]

On 6/7/2024 at 10:36 PM, Capitano said:

Yep, there is that $40 upcharge, which is a deal breaker for me because it sets the stage in a wrong way. The total rate is acceptable, especially for 90 minutes (220+40), but the message is that he hates doing it. I don't want interaction with someone who is deep down repulsed by it. This line of work just isn't for a hot straight guy who hates doing it but can't resist because the money is too good IMHO. It just cannot work in the long run.

BTW, he didn't disclose the surcharge right away, only when asked, which suggests that the unsuspecting client is in for a mood-killing upcharge or that infamous and so demeaning "now you can finish yourself" that so many Eastern European & Russian masseurs do. And another indicator that he doesn't want to do it, and that I should pass despite him being hot and trained.

How did you like the massage?

[Capitano]

11 hours ago, Trick said:

How did you like the massage?

I didn't get it, my bigger head prevailed. 😉

Him charging $40 for a HE pretty much guarantees that he won't go anywhere near the glutes and hip flexors which are important to me. Plus I am so done with hot straight guys who hate certain aspects of this job but stick around because the money is just too good.

Also, he disclosed this only when I specifically asked about it, so that tells me he was either going to upsell or, more likely, give me that dreaded & demeaning "now you can finish yourself" in the end. I also think it's manipulative and dishonest not to disclose on RM which types of massage he does.

A clear case of "love the money, hate the job" IMHO, plus a dose of disdain for the people who pay him. No mas, decided to draw the line and feel pretty good about it.

[Trick]

Bump

[Skip]

Texted with him today. Quoted "Happy ending hand job mutual touching 210$ 60M" . So maybe he learned, And quite frankly how many guys on a gay massage site DON"T want a HE. Silly to leave it out and $210 for is a great price.  Maybe I will see him tomorrow. 

[Capitano]

4 hours ago, Skip said:

Texted with him today. Quoted "Happy ending hand job mutual touching 210$ 60M" . So maybe he learned, And quite frankly how many guys on a gay massage site DON"T want a HE. Silly to leave it out and $210 for is a great price.  Maybe I will see him tomorrow. 

Was this an answer to a question that mentioned HE? My question was neutral and was simply about his rates for different kinds of massage, and I was quoted $170. I got the clarification that HE was $40 extra when I specifically asked for it. This tells me he either prefers not to do it (more likely) or upsells, but maybe I am wrong. I am not saying don't hire him, just that one has to be careful with hot straight guys. In any case, please do give us an update if you decide to go for it!

[Camuncapp]

11 hours ago, Capitano said:

Was this an answer to a question that mentioned HE? My question was neutral and was simply about his rates for different kinds of massage, and I was quoted $170. I got the clarification that HE was $40 extra when I specifically asked for it. This tells me he either prefers not to do it (more likely) or upsells, but maybe I am wrong. I am not saying don't hire him, just that one has to be careful with hot straight guys. In any case, please do give us an update if you decide to go for it!

I saw him a few months ago.  He does have some training so the massage part was okay. But for me it's uncomfortable when you can't communicate with the masseur.  He only said 6 words the whole time. Hi. Turn over. You want handjob?  I politely declined, paid the $170 and left after receiving a firm handshake.

[Skip]

One of my favorite guys is headed to town later this week, so I am going to pass on this guy.

[Wanderoz]

He's currently in DC, and I feel like I'm having a Murray Hill Gang flashback!