Oscar Bear in NYC

[Quiet]

Has anyone seen OscarBear in New York?  Curious what his setup is and how long he intends to be here.  Thanks

[Harryinny]

Link?

[+ db66]

7 hours ago, Quiet said:

Has anyone seen OscarBear in New York?  Curious what his setup is and how long he intends to be here.  Thanks

 

6 hours ago, Harryinny said:

Link?

A recent string, though not specific to NYC. Link included.

Edit:

Oscar Bear Erotic Massage Happy Creampie, Free Gay Porn 1d | xHamster

XHAMSTER.COM

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Watch Oscar Bear Erotic Massage Happy Creampie gay video on xHamster, the best HD sex tube with tons of free the Gay Gay Daddy Creampie & Daddy porn...

And here he is in action. I have no idea if this is how his sessions go or not.

Edited May 1, 2023 by db66
Added the video link

[Quiet]

Just curious if anyone has seen in in NYC this week.  I would love to make an appointment but want to be certain it’s a safe setup. Thanks

[BigNoiseDallas]

1 hour ago, Quiet said:

Just curious if anyone has seen in in NYC this week.  I would love to make an appointment but want to be certain it’s a safe setup. Thanks

Saw him a few years ago in Dallas (pre-COVID). Safe setup in a chain hotel near the Medical District/Design District, along I-35. My erotic session did not end as shown above -- guess I'm not his type? Think there was an HE; not sure there was MT, and I don't feel like he encouraged it. The massage was fine, but I thought he was overpriced. I scheduled a 4-handed session with him and his partner Bryan on a later trip, but it was just as COVID hit and I backed out at the last minute (did all the scheduling through Bryan and he was totally cool with it). Hope this helps.

[Quiet]

Bump

[+ Just Sayin]

here's a link to his Rentmasseur ad:

OscarBear on RentMasseur

RENTMASSEUR.COM

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View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I saw him a couple of years ago and if he comes this way again, I'd definitely repeat

[viewing ownly]

I'll second BigNoiseDallas' experience. His content experiences and massage therapy experiences are not going to be the same, but it's a great way to gain recognition for him and experience his massage, not sex, when he comes to an area near you. Penetration aside, you can tell he doesn't neglect being skilled at his craft.

[BigNoiseDallas]

Oscar has an OnlyFans page that I subscribed to; many of the videos posted were of massages that ended like the Xhamster video above. Oscar also posted videos of he and Bryan having 3- and 4-ways either during the course of a massage or not. My theory is that Oscar grew more attached to the porn-like side of their business while Bryan didn't (he gives the impression of having a full-time job), so they parted ways. Bryan still advertises out of Houston.

[Simon Suraci]

In the previous thread @calstrin was disappointed the massage didn’t end like something in his porn videos, but I wonder if there was any communication about expectations or discussions of rates for such an experience. Maybe Oscar is open to providing that experience for an appropriate fee? Doesn’t hurt to offer. I wouldn’t expect Oscar or any masseur to give it all away for a massage fee.

Anyone know what he charges for a massage? Or for more? His ad says “ask”.

[+ Just Sayin]

@Simon Suraci, I just checked my texts with him from 2021; back then incall was $180 for 60 minutes and $250 for 90 minutes

[Simon Suraci]

3 hours ago, Just Sayin said:

back then incall was $180 for 60 minutes and $250 for 90 minutes

Thanks for taking the time to check and post @Just Sayin. There is no hard and fast rule, but in my mind at least, a one hour session in the range of $180-$220 is high for massage only (even “erotic” massage). It’s still lower than escort fees which generally start in the $250 neighborhood at the lower end and go up from there.

All, keep your expectations in check for 90 and 120 min sessions accordingly. With more time, it adds up to more fee, but that doesn’t suddenly make it an escort session based on a total dollar amount, like say, $250 for a 90 or 120 min session. For instance, I charge $260 for a two hour massage session, but it’s just massage, erotic though it may be. I am good with providing more, but I increase the fee for clients who want that.

The trouble is you get into that high price territory of $180+ and you might expect more on the erotic front than you would with others, but you’re not quite paying a rate where you can reasonably expect full service or something along that level of sexual interaction. It’s a gray area. For that price point let’s hope it’s a truly amazing skilled therapeutic and/or erotic massage. Or you’re paying for the view. Or both.

Best to ask for what you want and if he offers it, don’t be shocked if he quotes you $250-$350 (or sometimes more) for a single hour, and of course pricing will fluctuate with how much total time you book. Some guys don’t offer what you want or he quotes higher than you are willing to pay. Since you asked, it saves you the time and $.

Masseurs vary, so I am not the authority. I just like to help clients adjust their expectations so they can enjoy the guys they hire and find the best value for their money. I see masseur fan site content posted here and there and clients reacting expecting a duplicate experience for a massage fee and I roll my eyes. If you get that, good for you. It’s just not reasonable to expect that from every masseur…even those who produce explicit OF ‘massage scene’ content.

Anyway, have fun. I hope you guys try Oscar and report back. Do ask for what you want and share what you find out. Looks like a fun time.