Regular "date" night with a guy

[sizzlingrice]

I am entering into a more regular (once a week) "date" night with a guy with the understanding of helping him with his monthly expenses. I was not looking for a weekly "date" at first as everyone knows, it is going to be an expensive monthly expenditure. I agreed to do it only because he said I could give him less than market price and that he really like hanging out with me. I did take his offer and gave him an amount lesser and he seems to be okay with it.

 

My question is: Has anyone been in this kind of a situation and how was it? It's my first time to do this and am kind of excited at the same time, scared. How do you end it if you're not into it anymore? He is a very nice sweet guy and I also have fun hanging out with him.

 

Anyone sharing their experience would really be appreciated.

 

Thank you.

[Guest zipperzone]

>How do you end it if you're

>not into it anymore? He is a very nice sweet guy and I also

>have fun hanging out with him.

 

If it no longer works for you, you should be honest and tell him so.

 

You could also say that while you have enjoyed his company etc, you feel that you would like to experience a relationship with another male that was not based on financial terms and that your weekly "dates" with him would technically be cheating on your new relationship to be and you feel that it is best to make a clean break of it now.

 

Or you could simply say that you are finding your budget does not allow you this kind of regular entertainment.

 

I would think that all of the above could be said without feeling any guilt as they are all essentially true.

[JT Brooklyn]

Zip..Right on the Money...Be Upfront, he should with any Experience (Age) know that this type of Relationship,does work "both" ways.

 

But IF he's the "it's all about me" Type, he just might find a more suitable $$ situation, before you fall out of Infatuation also!

He will be spending time with other Client's as well. IF he becomes more unavailable than available, that will be your First Clue! LOL

 

Take this for what's it worth! Have Fun,Enjoy, as long as it Lasts..

NOTHING is forever anyway! :P

[sizzlingrice]

Thanks for your comments. It's what I have in mind as well. I'm just going to be upfront and honest when the time comes. I am going to enjoy every minute of the experience. And for me, I see this as more of a $$ situation and of carnal desire on my end as he is the fantasy guy that came true, look/built/intellect wise.

[JT Brooklyn]

Sizzling..Good for You. Most "Working Guy's" do have "Regular" Client's, anywhere from once a month and beyond. Actually Steady's are what makes some a Very "Astronomical" Income, within the course of a Year! LOL

 

So your situation, though probably more often hanging out, isn't any different from most. It does sound like your Time is well Spent! Enjoy-Enjoy

 

When and IF the Disconnect comes, don't feel to Bad, because there will always be more Client's for a Guy, who know's how to "Work It"

 

:P

[sizzlingrice]

Not just hanging out, there's always sex! He wants to have sex AND hang out. Ain't life grand?

[JT Brooklyn]

Sizzling. I did mean...Hanging Out more often than Most Client's to have Sex!

 

"No Sex" isn't really Working it! I know there are exceptions! LOL

 

:P