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I never leave reviews about time being cut short coz this is happening to almost 80% of providers. I was on time usually, and the time I count is between I walk into the studio and walk out. I thought this might be a common issue but from the replies it looks like this only happens to me. Maybe it is because I started the mutual touching part too early, like 15 minutes into the massage.

I don't know if this happens to me or just my location (Orange county, CA) but almost all (20+) providers I hired on rentmasseur seem to be unable to keep the clock for the full 60 min time as promised. They usually ask me to flip over after 20 min and get done when we are only 30 or 40 minutes into the session.

Is this normal or should I set the expectation of just 40 mins? I talked to one provider about it and he said something like "Oh I did not pay attention to the clock" and did gave me a 1-hour experience next time but later switched back to the 40m timer.

Hired him in Vegas today. It turns out he IS the actual model who shoot for peterfever himself.

He just came to US a couple months ago. Highly recommended. 

He does NOT get nude. In fact he said no after first touching him on the legs. Don't book him unless you are just going for the massage part.

So when you approach a new sub on the Internet, how do you guys talk?

I mean, do you talk dirty with role play (being strict and sounds like a dom) or do you talk like a normal person? I liked to talk like a normal person but worry if that would affect the relationship and my authority when we started playing. I also try to do role play from start to end during our meeting. Is that the right way? Or should I just talk to them normally outside the play session?

Subs, please feel free to chime in too. What do you guys prefer?

Thanks for chime in guys. I will try take lunch meeting first and get recon.

On 8/2/2020 at 10:13 PM, LOLO said:

This dude is on my post-covid list.

 

https://rentmasseur.com/MassagebyTony

This guys is very disappointing. Older than pic suggests. Finished job in half of booked time. Terrible.

Never tried more than 60 mins. I am usual doing it for the erotic touch, so 60 min is just long enough for me. One provider even gave me an option of 30 mins but I never gave it a try.

I would never hire without seeing a face pic.

On 8/11/2018 at 5:30 AM, whipped guy said:

Interestingly more than one escort has pulled the sane thing in me. The first time it happened it took me by surprise as he suddenly got on the floor, kneeled in front of me and asked to be punished. Consequently, I had absolutely no time to think about how I might want to approach the situation.

 

I simply went with the flow and he gave me enough signals regarding what he wanted. I think the PK advice is about on target. Less is always more and I found that a firm whisper in his ear worked fine. Examples: “You wanna lick the sweat off my balks... right?” “You wanna choke on my cock?” “You want me to torture you... and you’re gonna enjoy it... right?” Etc. He will most likely tell you and signal exactly what he wants and how far he needs to go.

 

Regarding items that you might bring in addition to what was already mentioned... obviously a belt... and grab a few clothespins for use on his nips and other more sensitive body parts as you probably don’t have any clamps on hand. Remember even if you don’t use them... they can be used to threaten him... and that is something subs often like. The buckle end of the belt is a good example... seriously that would cross the line, but it may give him a thrill to be threatened with it. Obviously that is not where you would start, but something to consider. Of course your hands can work to slap him as well. Plus, you hopefully also have teeth that are not of the artificial variety to use as well. Start working his nips with your fingers, then nails, and then teeth. They usually drives them crazy! Anything csn be used to improvise a blindfold and many guys like to be surprised. If in a home setting ice cubes can provide an interesting effect. Plus, look in the kitchen drawer and a bunch if items will offer other possibilities...

 

It might also be good to use a safe word or words at first. I usually hate the pink and red colors that are used to signify close to not liking it and then stop. They are mood breakers and sound silly to me, but they are often the universal codes that are used along with yellow, orange, and red. I told the guy to say he was “on the edge” when he come close to reaching his limit. It was so cute how be kept repeating the word “edge edge edge edge” when that happened. At that point you can threaten him with something more intense... yes a nice guy can get away with it if said in the correct way. When he refuses you then cuddle him and say,”I wanna take good care of my boy! I only wanna do what my boy wants and needs! I would never force my boy to cross the line!” That will inspire confidence to further trust you. It might not happen that session, but perhaps your next time together. Of course he may surprise you and want to take things to the next level. As long as he makes the first move go for it. Otherwise err on the side of caution! One more thing... often subs will yell that they want you to stop, but really they want more... that’s where the safe word comes it.

 

The best BDSM tops are really the proverbially nice guy. That is how you come across here @Keith30309 and I am sure that is your persona in real life. It’s is indeed all about the sub having trust and confidence in the dom... and it is always easy to trust a nice guy! Remember the cardinal rule is that THE BOTTOM IS ACTUALLY IN CHARGE regarding how far the action proceeds. The worst tops are in it for their own pleasure. The top must realize that part of the pleasure he gets is from knowing that he is satisfying the sub at the level that the sub needs and wants even if it means that he has to back off a bit on what he would like to administer.

 

I hope this helps, do enjoy, and a report would be interesting!

Thanks so much. That was very helpful.

Saw this guy with massage only (though I found him on RM). He is terrible. Cut my session time in half. Has a tiny tool.

https://rent.men/Skylaris

Is the picture real? I once met this Thai guy named TommyLee and he is using a fake photo.

I saw AJ also and he is a very sweet guy.

Bump. I am also interested.

Can we have area-specific forums? I live in LA/OC and it's really hard to dig out relevant RM info out of those 1000 escorts who are not even in my city.

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me too. anyone tried?

I am actually looking for massage with HE (or maybe a bit more, lol), if that clarifies anything.

I live in OC and LA (especially West Hollywood) is too far for me to travel.

Is there any spa you guys can recommend in OC? I am looking for something like the Prince Men Spa in LA, hopefully with lots of Asians that I can book from.

I can confirm ispa is open.

Wouldn't recommend Tony at all. First of all, he is not showing face in pictures for a reason (being a bit on the older side). Second, he disappeared from the massage room for a good 3 minutes without explaining anything. And most importantly, he ended our session (booked 1 hour) super early (making it total of 40 minutes or something). He might have tons of reviews on rentmasseur.com but I finally know why: he asked me to post a review on him after our session. Would never go back to this guy.

Wouldn't recommend Tony at all. First of all, he is not showing face in pictures for a reason (being a bit on the older side). Second, he disappeared from the massage room for a good 3 minutes without explaining anything. And most importantly, he ended our session (booked 1 hour) super early (making it total of 40 minutes or something). He might have tons of reviews on rentmasseur.com but I finally know why: he asked me to post a review on him after our session. Would never go back to this guy.

Met Oscar. He is indeed a nice guy. Picture is true. Very very muscular.