armiller1979

My boyfriend and I are going to be in Tampa at the end of March, and are looking to hire 1-2 others for a small group.  Any suggestions are welcome.  Thank you in advance!

-A

He was using a different name previously.  Unfortunately, I can't remember what it was.

I recently got together with a provider who contacted me first. He later said that since I had checked out his profile so many times, there's a good chance I'd take him up on his offer.  Needless to say, he was correct.  I'm not sure if I would have even known that he was in town if he hadn't reached out.  I do appreciate it if a provider reaches out first, as it dissipates a lot of the anxiety about sending that first message.  I do have information on my profile, which just makes it easier when communicating on RM.  I can say, "check my profile" rather than typing out what I'm into each and every time.

I recently spent the weekend with him, and it was well worth it.  He made me feel extremely comfortable the entire time and that he really wanted to be there, regardless of what we did or didn't do (and we "did" a lot <wink>).  I had also met him for an hour or so when he was passing through my city.  DM me for details, but I definitely recommend.

On 4/4/2021 at 10:27 PM, njr47 said:

He definitely seems to be a "your mileage may vary" kind of guy. But I am intrigued. I'm definitely into the Boy Friend Experience, and kissing is very important to me. For those of you who have met him, does this seem to be something he is good at??

Absolutely.  Excellent kisser.  Saw him while he was on layover in my city, and had such a good time that I went back the next day, and the day after that.  So yeah, I'd recommend.

I had an excellent 24 hours with him recently.  He was easy to communicate with and to arrange a visit (I flew in from out of town), and he was a great host. I had some issues getting the deposit to him, but he was understanding and we worked it out. He looks exactly like his pictures and is very good at what he does.  I echo @advnturpup's review: worth. every. penny.

I definitely plan on seeing him again...

Since I started doing sex work it’s the single most difficult thing I had to deal with and I really don’t think I know how to deal with a similar situation if it happens again. We all want clients to feel attractive and desired but it’s so easy for a client who may be looking for a relationship to confuse that professional response for genuine attraction and a willingness to start a relationship.

I think you do know how to deal with it if it happens again. In fact, you even told us:

...say “look this is a transaction, I like you but I only have sex with you because you’re paying me”

Yeah, it'd feel shitty saying that to someone, but it would need to be said in that situation. In the long run, I bet the client would appreciate your honest reality check.