thenightawa

You sound effing ridiculous right about now. Nothing in the previous person's quote alluded to a safety concern. All he said was it seemed too straightforward. He also added that English was maybe not his first language. Nothing about that seemed to imply imminent danger. Therefore your statement re: if you feel uncomfortable don't meet, is not applicable there. You're mistaking uncomfortable as judgmental, which you seem to be the poster child of.

 

Now, had you said: if you are uncomfortable, say you need more information or talk over the phone to meet...then I woulda been like, sure. But to flat out dismiss by saying don't meet, just comes off like a dick.

 

And I say that because dicks usually do shit like that: I've had guys claim to have arrived to my hotel, gotten my room number, and then say; "sorry I got spooked/uncomfortable". Then I'm like, what the hell???

So, in my case, what do you suggest me to do? He didn’t ask anything from me. What should I say to revitalize the convo? And when do I start to acknowledge those as red flags. Thanks.

I just reached out to a provider and the convo was..I don't know...too straightforward? He only gave me single word answers. Understandably that english might be his second language, but he didn't even ask me anything on his end.

Basically, it goes: "Friday?" "Yes" "When?" "6". And that's the end of the convo.

Should I follow up with him more, or?

Anyone know anything about him? Thanks!

https://rentmen.eu/CristoferEliu