Why is that not a good sign? I wanted to incorporate my nickname given to me because I say Boss all the time. I am interested, so based on your perspective it is a bad sign. Why is that if you don't care to explain? I'm fascinated by other people's opinions that's why I ask, as human beings we sometimes over dramatize things and make life more complicated than it has to be, so psychology intrigues me and I like to dig deeper to see why that person(s) feels a certain way. Sometimes it has merit and other times it does not. For example if you planted 2 trees in your front yard and 1 of them was a dog wood and the other was a magnolia tree and your neighbor said that's not a good combination, instead of getting frustrated or resorting back to my human ways of letting emotions take over I simply ask what combination would be good and have them explain why my combination wasnt good to them. In the end everyone is different and we have a difference in opinion BUT if you try to understand the WHY behind everything then you can understand people a little more. You do not have to agree, still get along and respect the other person perspective. I love the fact we all have a different opinion, it brings variety and spunk to the table.