inbedwithmybaggage

I'm in my early 30's, have been openly gay since about age 17, but never quite figured out dating/sex. I thought I would do fine and looked forward to leaving home for college, couldn't wait til I'd have a boyfriend, but it just never happened naturally for me. I realized I really wasn't "smooth" at all, then other stuff always popped up (or maybe simply excuses).
 
Anyway, ultimately in my mid 20's I developed more depression and anxiety, had some "unrequited" type drama, and just got totally psyched out completely, to the point of developing severe restrictive and avoidant behaviors.
 
So here I am. Basically have not had sex in about 10 years.
 
No idea if I'd be a nightmare client or what. Haven't met many others like me, and actually only recently learned that it's referred to by some as "Sexually Anorexic", and it really clicked/resonated when I first encountered the term.

I'm in my early 30's, have been openly gay since about age 17, but never quite figured out dating/sex. I thought I would do fine and looked forward to leaving home for college, couldn't wait til I'd have a boyfriend, but it just never happened naturally for me. I realized I really wasn't "smooth" at all, then other stuff always popped up (or maybe simply excuses).
 
Anyway, ultimately in my mid 20's I developed more depression and anxiety, had some "unrequited" type drama, and just got totally psyched out completely, to the point of developing severe restrictive and avoidant behaviors.
 
So here I am. Basically have not had sex in about 10 years.
 
No idea if I'd be a nightmare client or what. Haven't met many others like me, and actually only recently learned that it's referred to by some as "Sexually Anorexic", and it really clicked/resonated when I first encountered the term.