Interesting question. I’ve received probably hundreds of massages over the years - everything from a hug to full-blown penetration. So, what defines “sex”? Deep kissing, BJ, anal massage, happy ending, nipple play, toe sucking, anal licking, etc. or is it defined as simply achieving orgasm? Just saying there’s a long list of activities that accompany a “massage” that can be defined as “sex”. I had a dude one time who was so adept at kissing that I climaxed just from that alone before the massage even started. Yes, I was much younger and was coming off a dry spell.