TBH I only went to a spa because my regular masseur was out of town.
My primary goal when paying for a massage is bodywork, sensuality is secondary, and HE is purely a bonus.
My regular guy who comes home is far more affordable and adaptable to our requirements - I usually pay around $120-140 for 2x90min sessions for my husband and me - but this is a friends rate since I’ve known him for 3 years now
His technique is good and deep (he was a student of a reputable institution)