Starlight77

Thanks for this. I get it but at the same time he's not a regular provider. Just a college dude off Grindr. But at the same time you are right. I can give him a number and see how he responds to that and maybe a negotiation can happen. There's something about him not being an experience provider that makes me not want to give him what I would give to regular from rentmen until I discover our chemistry and see what I feel what the meetings will be worth.

So I am getting my feet wet in initiating contact with some Grindr college guys to see who would be up for an arrangement. I've never done this before outside of rentmen so not sure what the "rules" are...if there are any. I am talking to one cute guy - we haven't set a first meet up yet but it will get there soon. But he did ask me how much donation he will get for our first meeting. I was able to dodge the question saying it depends on how long we meet for. What would be an acceptable donation for this kind of situation? Would it be comparable to a provider on rentmen? It's not like I want to lowball him but I don't want him to take advantage either so just figuring it all out. you can DM me if you want.

I'm on the hunt for piggy/kinky NYC escorts tops. Providers who are into spit, sweat, man smell/musk and cum play would be my jam. I don't care about age, race, or if they are top or bottom but kissing is a must. Let me know. Thanks in advance.

True story....I hired a hot escort who was traveling to see my by train. I told him I would pick him up at the train station, go out to dinner, then go back to my place. The restaurant I made a reservation at for us was swarming with cops when we showed up....apparently some sort of arrest warrant was out for one of the staff. We couldn't go in and I was a bit embarrassed but the escort was extremely nice and understanding and he said, "hey its totally OK...let's just go there".....he pointed at the McDonalds across the street. I was like....what? he laughed and smiled and said..."I'm a sucker for a good Big Mac". And thats what we did, then went back to my house for hours of fun.

As long as I have had this "hobby", so to speak I've only used rentmen. I just perused rentmassuer for the first time and see guys in my city that are not on rentmen. My question is if its appropriate to ask those guys on rentmassuer if they are willing to do more "escort" activities and not just massage? Any info on this and/or your experiences with this is greatly appreciated.

You already started a thread on this guy. No reason to ask again on this thread. It deters away from the original point of this conversation which is to give recommendations for hung LA guys who like to kiss. So back to the subject on hand. I recommend this guy. https://rentmen.eu/ParkerMatson

Thank you. And thank you for not being judgey like other commenters on this thread. It's shocking to me on a forum where we discuss paying men for sex.

He would ditch me in a second if he hit it off with a hot girl to go have sex with her. and I would be happy for him

I would have him come back to my place to complete the "date". it wouldn't JUST be the bar. And good for you. But for me, it's quite enticing .

I appreciate these questions alot because they are making me think. I guess when I thought about this idea, it didn't matter it wasn't real but I do value my friendship with him and I guess I don't feel great about essentially lying to him because he would much rather see me connect with someone genuine. But yea, there is this desire to impress him. Do I have feelings for my straight best friend. Of course I do. I guess thats why I thought this would be a interesting idea, to not think about wanting him and for one night be distracted with a guy coming into the bar to talk to me. There are not a lot of gay bars in my area. We have gone to one together. Admittedly my friend is a very attractive man so when we did go, the guys were much more interested in him. It's just a lot easier for me to get him girls than it is for him to get me guys.

Has anyone hired a provider you already been with (I wouldn't do this with a new hire) to have them casually walk into a bar that you are out with your friends and kind of stage a setup or role-play where he walks in to the bar and takes a seat next to you and "organically" start having a convo with him but its all planned out between you and him. Then it escalates into becoming flirty with each other and hitting it off in front of your friends. Ive been thinking about this when I go out with my straight friend and I'm his wingman getting him girls and he's hitting it off with them....I thought it might be kind of cool if he saw me hitting it off with some guy and taking him home with me....even if it's setup. I'm just wondering how guilty I would feel lying to my best friend that it's not real and I'm paying the escort to do all that. I hope this made sense.

Recommendations for multiple cummers in a 1-2 hour session? Any experience with a provider who can come 2-3 times? Looking in NYC and Los Angeles. thanks!

It never occurred to me if the rooms have connecting doors. Great, my young nephews will just come and go out of my room as they please. lol. Well a hotel I could get away with switching room. Not on a cruise.

yea I got the 2nd tier internet package. I did see a LGBTQ meet up but I prefer to be a bit more discreet since I have my family roaming the boat. It's bad enough being in the same row of rooms with them. I have my own stateroom but it's between my sisters and brothers rooms (with their kids). blah. So I'm a bit hesitant of even bringing a guy back to my room if I met anyone. But you never know.

I'm going on my first cruise. It's a "family" cruise so I don't expect a bunch of single guys roaming around however I was wondering if apps like Grindr and Scruff work on cruise ships? I figured maybe there's one or two guys who will be on the boat looking for some fun.

Which is why I was asking for specific referrals. I’m developing a complex.

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight? I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me. So I figured I would just ask here. 🤷‍♂️ All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE. Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must. I do not care about race, age, height. I'm like them all. Thanks.

What is good language to put in your Grindr profile to let guys know that you are willing to be generous without saying it right out? I've never tried this Grindr angle before but I'm curious what I could find local to me. Thanks

I haven't been up to date recently on the NY scene and looking for best boyfriend experience. Not someone who just wants to fuck a whole. I want lots of passion, deep kissing, touching...etc. Who's the best right now?

yea my text messages with him are interesting to say the least. he's very incoherent and most of it looks like he's pressing random keys. He's also a little too persistent - just too many red flags.

Anyone have recent experience with Tommy? Seems like reviews are mixed but not anything recent? Only really curious because he’s on Long Island and I wouldn’t have to trek to the city to meet up with someone. https://rentmen.eu/Tommydeluca

how do you know which guys are down for this?

Has anyone had success in finding local Long Island guys for hire outside of rentmen? Trekking out to the city from Long island to meet up with escorts is a bit much for me and had me wondering if there are guys who are closer found through other avenues. Anyone had luck? DM if you would like .

Hey I'm planning a trip to NY and haven't really kept up on the NY market in over a year or so. Who would you say are the best passionate kissers in NY these days? Of course I get into other stuff but really want a provider who really gets into deep, passionate, wet kissing.

Hey guys. I had an incident a few days ago and wanted to bring it up on here. I was visiting Washington DC and met up with an escort that has been on my radar for quite a long time. He gets rave reviews and we have been chatting on and off over the year but never got a chance to meet up. Well the time finally came and the session was not great. He could not perform and after about an hour of messing around I decided to leave. (We agreed on a two hour session). He was gracious and apologized saying he's been tired or whatever. I wasn't necessarily upset with him, but I guess I was just more let down and disappointed as I was looking forward to a great evening and nothing happened besides some heavy makeout and sucking his limp dick. As I left, I put the payment on his coffee table and he refused to accept it because he knew that I did not have a good time. I didn't know what to do in the moment if I should have insisted for him to keep the money or take it back. I did wind up keeping the money and not giving him a dime. Did I make the right decision? What would have you all done?