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There have been some stories on here where I think some guys have said they have spent tens of thousands of dollars on like bringing a bunch of guys for a weekend orgy. The most I've done is a $1200 overnight (including a tip and dinner) for two guys who are a couple that I hired this last summer for my birthday. The hotel was actually a free night from Hotels.com rewards. But basically I spent my whole stimulus getting stimulated.

That I have a "second hole." Haha. Early in the hobby, I actually had a couple of great escorts that taught me a lot about how to be a good/safe client. Very practical stuff like having a Google voice number, not paying until the end of the session, meeting in the hotel lobby instead of in the room, etc. The few times I've had bad experiences, it was actually because I wasn't following some of these guidelines.

Colorado is really sunny. I doubt it beats like Arizona or Nevada but compared to most states in the midwest/east coast, it's very sunny. This is especially the case in the winter. I went to college in the midwest and it was cold and cloudy like all winter. Here we'll get one day of snow and then the next day it's beautiful and sunny out.

I think Colorado. Statistically, we are the fittest state in America. And in my experience a lot of men here are very good looking. I love sitting down in a park bench in the summer and just watching all the shirtless guys running.

If you think about it, they kinda have to pay taxes, especially if this is the only source of income. You can't like not pay taxes for several years because you have no "income" and then buy a house or something. That looks very suspicious. So a lot of escorts have set-up sole-propieter businesses as "models" or "masseurs" or whatever and pay taxes based on that. Of course they are likely not paying taxes on all of their income but if they don't, I am sure they risk getting an audit.

That's weird to me. I agree with others that like your rate is your rate and if a client chooses to tip that is their choice. I honestly would be turned off if a provider said, "$xxx + tip."

I'm so sorry to hear about your experience. Sounds like he took advantage of your generous nature. Hopefully some important lessons learned in this experience. I know that I have through my time hiring. Best of luck for finding a gentleman who treats you well.

I have talked about it with a very small number of people...really only like 3-4 friends/lovers. I know that members of my family would not be accepting of it, so I just keep that part to myself.

Yeah..it's usually just an extra $20 from me at most when I tip. The exception is the one overnight that I did for my birthday when I actually did tip $100, but it was to a couple so it was really like $50 for each of them. And they really did go above and beyond...they gave me a birthday present, really planned out the evening, bought drinks and props and other fun things. They made it really special.

So it looks like I should get my vaccine as an educator in early March. I don't think I will reserve anything until then and will also see what the situation is like in California then. I wouldn't travel there now even if I had a vaccination.

No, I think there is nothing wrong with spending time with escorts from a moral perspective. To me morality should be based on how your actions effect other people. As long as you are two consenting adults, there is nothing harmful about the relationship between an escort and his client. I think potentially it could be morally harmful if it effects your relationships with others. Like if your loved-ones would be ashamed or hurt if they found out you were engaged in this hobby since many in society consider it "wrong." This is why I really do my best to keep this entire thing to be my business only. I really don't discuss this with any friends or family at all except of course on the forum. But others may not have loved-ones that would care as much about this. I do think you need to watch out for issues of consent and there certainly could be human trafficking issues in escorting. But if you are careful and thoughtful about this hobby, there is really nothing morally wrong with it at all.

I think it's good to tip but definitely not mandatory. I also think it depends on the circumstance somewhat. Obviously tipping if the escort was just amazing in every way but also I kind of think of tipping as a way of maybe establishing guys who I want to be regulars with and maybe spend more time with in the future. Just as a way of them maybe remembering me a little bit more from the crowd of clients they see. While I don't expect any future favors or deals just because I have tipped (especially only one time), I have noticed that some of the guys who I have tipped were maybe willing to do a longer session at a slightly more favorable rate or whatever. But if it was kind of a mediocre or overpriced experience and I am not interested in having the guy as a regular, I don't typically bother tipping. I'd say it's been about 75% tip, 25% no tip for me.

Oh yes and the same if the reverse is true. I actually realize I rarely host escorts either at my apartment or at my hotel when traveling. Although in the few occasions that I have, I definitely meet them in the hotel lobby or outside of my apartment building. I agree, I don't like some random guy I don't know knocking on my door. .

I often set up the meeting through text. But like I definitely do not try to go up to an apartment or hotel room to meet an escort. I require that the escort meet me outside of the building. Even if it's just a quick hello and a shake of the hands just to get a bit of a feel for the guy and so he can literally "escort" me up to the room.

I was going to suggest Matt Muck. He's the only one I could see fulfilling that fantasy even if he may not do it regularly.

Which ones have given you the better "bang for your buck?" Normal or porn star?

For an overnight or longer session I am definitely willing to go higher but $300 is the max I've ever paid for an hour and I've only done that in kinda expensive cities with well-known guys. Although I am finding that a lot of younger, inexperienced guys still try to go for $300 an hour. I am pretty wary of that and would rather go $200-$250 for someone who is lesser known. For the overnight I did $1200 when all was said and done but I am including hotel, dinner and tip in that (and actually it was an escorting couple as well).

I think you handled it really well. Sorry about your experience and know that you'll be able to have a more positive one in the future.

Sometimes health/family things do come up last minute. It would be nice if they gave you a heads up but that might not always be their priority. One guy I contacted threw his back out at the gym and had to get treated at the hospital...ended up reaching out the next day but by then I had found another provider. Hopefully it's nothing serious and probably really was just a "ghosting" situation. But good luck either way finding a regular provider in your area.

It's happened to me several times as well even with well-reviewed escorts. It still sucks though and it hurts to feel like you're being rejected somehow. I've had the same thing happen to me even with having dinner reservations and everything. So sorry but it's actually not uncommon...move on and hopefully find another guy who is better at respecting your time.

Ah..I see it. Thanks!

Ok..so I think I might make a reservation if it can be cancelled. I will only go if I have a vaccine by then (probably a good though not certain chance). I did want to travel abroad this year, but that's looking dicey IMO. But domestic travel sounds doable. Where should I reserve? Thanks in advance for any advice.

I haven't but would love to hear about your experience if you decide to meet up. I haven't seen his twitter but I'd be interested in checking that out too.

Another thing that I think is telling is how they react when you tell an escort you're not meeting up with them. Often when I am in the mood to hire or am traveling to a new city, I will put feelers out to a few different guys that catch my eye. Inevitably I only end up with one of them (or maybe 2 on a trip). I always communicate politely to the guys I end up not meeting (it's often usually just that they were late to reply), "Sorry but I decided to go with another gentleman this evening, but thanks for your response." It's interesting how a decent percentage will get bent out of shape..those are the ones that I definitely do not reach out to again. The ones that are chill I definitely have reached out to again and have met for future meetings.