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  1. Recently saw Enri (aka Enrique). I cannot say enough positive things about him. Great guy. And though some of his pics make him look a bit stern, he really is a sweet guy. I highly recommend and would also say there's no reason for anyone to hesitate from seeing him.
  2. Anyone have any experience with Horny_Son in NYC? https://app.rent.men/Horny_Son
  3. I wasn't sure which forum to put this, and opting here hoping to get feedback from both providers and clients. It's been almost two decades since I've hired. I used to post on here regularly in the Hooboy and Daddy days, so things have changed in many ways. Back in those days, I hired often rather than play the game hooking up with people. I now find myself on a business trip far away from home and will have some 'mentertainment' tonight. My partner and I have long held an understanding of whatever-happens-is-fine while traveling alone, but it's been a while for me. I now find myself having some thoughts on what I'd like our time tonight to look like. The guy I found on rent.men ticks off all the things I find hot in a guy. And while our texts have been fine, he hasn't encouraged a lot of communication before meeting. And I get it, I'm sure providers get too many players out there getting off on texting and don't follow through. Before I get to my ultimate question, here are some of the things on my mind: In addition to hiring back in the 'good ole days', I also was fond of visiting the Gaety in NYC or Atlantis in Baltimore. In fact, visiting these strip clubs often led to my hiring. Now that those places are closed, and having been in a relationship for many years, I find that I miss being flirted with and the thrill of meeting of meeting someone new. (How shallow is that?) As I've shared with some friends, the biggest downside to hiring in the past (which I also believe is similar to hooking up with many people while dating), is that once you settle down, it can eventually get to the point where you get a bit bored being with the same person. So what's the point of sharing this? I think it would be hot if the guy was a bit more forward (or aggressive, for lack of a better word) in being flirtacious in their actions when we meet. In the past, I would often spend the first hour simply talking with the guy ... when all I really wanted was for him to get undressed. I can be a chatty guy, but I am also a very visual and tactile guy, so I certainly wouldn't mind talking while also being able to enjoy looking and affectionately touching while we talked. Part of my own 'hang up' on this is that I never wanted to disrespect the provider and treat him like a 'piece of meat'. And yes, I know that ultimately I am doing that by paying him for his services. So what's the point of sharing this? I think it would be hot for the guy to not waste any time in taking off his shirt at the very least! I could probably come up with a few other thoughts ... but I'll leave it at that. As I see it, I have a couple options on how I should proceed in trying to have an enjoyable time tonight: ... I could say nothing / do nothing, and just meet the guy and go with the flow. ... I could muster the guts to be very upfront with the guy upon meeting and share some of what I'm hoping our time will be like. ... I could send him a text in advance telling him (as concise as possible) what I would find appealing for our time together. ... I could text and see if he's up for a 5-10 minute phone call prior to meeting to share some of these thoughts with him. So ... what are your thoughts? I'd appreciate hearing what you think.
  4. I recently came across a series of videos on the Chaosmen site called "pure". The guys use body oil to lube each other up for their fun. I should specify that they lube up their entire bodies. I found some of the videos to be extremely hot. At first, I thought there was some connection to the Pjur lubricant. But after reading some of their site description of the series, they simply say the guys use body oil. If you were going to give this a try, is there a body oil or lube that you would recommend? I would think it should be an oil or lube that is pretty slick and doesn't get sticky. If lube, water-based or silicone? I'd be interested in your thoughts.
  5. This site continues to be such a wealth of information and experiences. I'm curious if anyone has any thoughts on the sleepnumber beds? My partner and I are quite opposites. I'm 54 and 275 lbs. He's 34 and 150 lbs. We recently tried the $570 Nectar mattress available online. I LOVED it. I'd sleep thru the night, tossing and turning greatly reduced, woke without a backache. He HATED it. He tossed and turned, very fitful sleep. They have a one-year return policy. I had my money back within 36 hours of it being returned. Next we tried the $2200 Purple Mattress; one of their newer models. He LOVES it. And while I do think it is comfortable, the backaches are back and I'm often moving to the couch around 5am. It's going back soon. They have a 100-day return policy. So we've decided to give the sleepnumber a try. We went to the store and tried some out yesterday. It seems to me that the thicker the foam topper on it, the benefit of the air pressure would be reduced, especially for someone like me who needs a firmer mattress. For that reason, I'm leaning to getting the p5. The only benefit of going to the p6, from what I can see, is that it has some type of graphite (or something) in the foam that is supposed to help keep you cooler. I'm wondering if that really is worth it. Any experiences and thoughts anyone might have would be greatly appreciated.
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