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Thanks a lot.

I am available for travels you know

Hello my name is jamal masseur check out my website

ambivalentstudio.com

I am here :

For you to feel secure

For you to feel comfortable

For you to share your fantasies and passions

For you to push your limits

For you to share and talk

FOR YOU TO BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF

I WILL BE HONORED TO HAVE BEEN CHOSEN TO GUIDE OR JOIN YOU ON THAT JOURNEY

I have the opposite advice about your idea to have a two hour minimum for bookings. I think it’s a good idea and you should go with your gut on that. If you need two hours with the client to offer the experience that you’re envisioning providing, offering less can dilute your brand in a way that’s counter-productive in the long run. When you’re offering a niche service, you don’t have to go for mass appeal or be flexible to offer something besides what you know your BEST OFFERING is... unless this is your only source of income and you’re worried about not getting enough clients in the short-term. But in this sort of long-term minded way, if two hour experiences are what you want to be selling, I find that it’s best to just declare that, focus on attracting like-minded clients, and let guys who “aren’t so sure” about trying you out for two hours sit and think about it while you continue to amp up your branding. Always get better and better about describing specifically the experience you excel at offering. Be specific about what you’re about and let your people come to you. Being more flexible can help gain more clients in the short term, but being firm about having enough time to do what you do in the best way possible also has its benefits in the long run. You’re a lot more likely to have a schedule full of your ideal session types by next year, for example, if you start off INflexible about it now and focus exclusively on attracting clients who are ready to book the session length you desire as a minimum. Speaking as someone who has had a two hour minimum for the last 3-4 years.

THANKS Zach for your answer, that’s actually why I offer a 30min to 1:00 naked massage cause in case you are not ready for the all shambam we can start with that and see , therefore we have the time to talk it out live before / after or while we meet.

SO AFTER A BIG 2 WEEKS OF NON-STOP WORKING ON IT (NOT A GEEK HERE)

THERE IS A 40% READY VERSION OF MY WEBSITE THANKS TO ALL OF YOU FOR THE HELP AND ADVICE, CAUSE SINCE BY TAKING THEM IN CONSIDERATION AND APPLYING THEM TO ME I GREW A NEW FOUND CONFIDENCE IN WHAT I OFFER TO MY CLIENTS AND HAD RECENTLY LESS STRESSED MEETING CAUSE THEY KNEW WHERE THEY WERE GOING ...

ANYWAYS HERE IT IS

https://www.ambivalentstudio.com

JAMAL

When I've been asked for a pic, I'll send a full body pic without showing my face. That's always been sufficient. I've never been asked specifically for a face pic.

IF ONLY I COULD LIKE YOUR ANSWER MORE I WOULD! BRAVO

I say 100% of the time because I won’t meet anyone who doesn’t provide their stats. That’s the very 1st thing I ask, in an automated template response. Photo not necessary, though many of my clients voluntarily send one anyway, so it wouldn’t be earth-shattering if one day I decided to even ask for that.

 

It’s nothing to do with looks or judgement. It’s like come on, it’s 2018. This is not 1995 blind internet dating where you had to have a scanner and stamp to send a picture. There’s no reason to meet anyone who doesn’t volunteer what they look like. And if they can’t provide it, I have the technology to pull it up myself.

 

I simply ask because, on more than a few occasions, I’ve ended up meeting someone who was either underage or significantly unexpected. I think it’s a misunderstanding that just because an escort should be able to handle any client, that it equates to them being willing to meet someone without even knowing who or what they appear.

 

There’s a difference between being able to handle any client, versus not knowing who the person who’s merely TEXTING you (the other reason I’ve begun to ask more often, as many appointments are text back). To me, it’s unsafe and irresponsible. I refuse to do it.

 

Some “clients” (saying that loosely) may have an issue with someone asking. Yet, they can see a whole collage of face and full nude photos of me, but are afraid to tell me what their age or stats are? Dude, GTFO of here.

I am not escorting since long but I ask body and ass pics + stats :

1/because I am not a starving "whore" I want to have genuine desire for you and even tho (yes my expectations are lowered because I should be realistic) I have a weak point for daddies 45-55 but the man who put their hygiene and overall appearance in check.

2/I agree you have a full review of my self my phone my email my address my links my page, hell u might even know what I ate this morning but lord behold I ask for a phone call or a decent presentation when it comes to someone I will let "IN" my house? No offence to anyone but the client who refuses to provide any kind of reassuring reference at all and get insulted almost if ask is clearly not the client for me. "ALL MONEY IS NOT GOOD MONEY", I like meeting wiser men I can after the deed talk and all, but no way, I will meet you if you don't show a minimum of reciprocity from the get-go and if it happens to be sure to pay ahead!

3/There is clearly something wrong with the way our business has been thought out for me to read that absurdity from another age. I read clients everywhere being as worried as escorts about how and where to meet each other but the lack of respect and the entitled feeling that some display is killing me. how do we reconcile clients and providers maybe with a website that makes mandatory to create a client profile to be verified via cam by an admin...? this way everybody wins...

4/I won't even start with the security issue on the matter...

well @Mocha now its time for us to get in the DM situation:)

@Mocha thanks for the info I will look into it and i also intended to get cards on top of my website

ambivalent "the tendency to display contradictory feelings towards someone something or our self"

it's going to be the name of my website cause; our community forced me to be ashamed of my ambivalence like:

I cant a high sexual drive and not be someone consider as "interesting or boyfriend material."

I cant be a dominant well hung top without also being a romantic highly respectful being

i cant be a greedy pig and also being a well-balanced guy

THE WORST I CANT BE A DOMINANT BLACK TOP WITH A BIG ONE AND ALSO DEMANDING RESPECT AND POLITENESS.

anyway we are all ambivalent cause we never are only one thing and that's why I chose ambivalent men

Hi everyone,

So I need your input but first and foremost I'd like to thank @Eric Hassan and @Mocha for their help on my last question I created my add and I am in process to do my website i understand that a signature is very important but until it is done I'd rather not disclaim it until then here is my rentmen add https://rent.men/JAMALTURNER.

1/How do you advertise or talk about the sexual services you're willing to provide without breaking the law

2/How do you make the ad less about the sex per se but the connection (too many times the first contact being a text asking how big I am tended to make me cringe a little )

3/is a website a good idea ?

4/how to manage your desire to meet and interract with mature men but also keeping them in check (there's a guy tied to that dick remember???) no disrespect to any respectful client of course.

Thanks jamal

THANKS Eric that's very very helpful... I will also prepare the traduction too.

I'm with Mocha don't limit your time a bit more flexible will give results. You caught my eye....

Ok i’ll Do that and thanks for your reply it will help

I think something that you’re alluding to is a good idea – offering “packages“ can help people choose a certain experience. It will be helpful to you to offer different length appointments because different people will want different things, and if they see only one option and it doesn’t work for them, they might not choose to hire you. Also, you really need to clean up your grammar and spelling, and avoid making up words. The little details really matter.

Indeed being French I really struggle by the way Eric when did you decide to have your own website?

Jamal

Hello there...just to be sure Jamal and Jamahl are two different people

 

Anyhow, sounds interesting enough and like you've got the right branding for the most part. At the same time, you offer what you offer and those who are interested will go for it.

 

Considering it may be a niche audience, you may want to be flexible on the length of time. 2 hours may be a bit much for some, but could be desired by others. At the same time, there's definitely a market for it.

 

Personally, I've experience with the BDSM sessions. However, I tend to be more open to it when an already met client requests it. I generally prefer regular sex, but if it degrades to dungeon activities at some point, I'm willing.

Ok thank you for the answer, see that will help me the time frame is obviously important still for me the « coit » part is secondary given my preference to build a relationship starting around a desire of discovering or/and sharpening the BDSM experience , I guess i’ll Have to establish a protocol and services detail ahead in order to obtain that goal.

Cause working in the sex industry yes but choosing a very specific type of clientele implies an even more specific thought out of the matter.

Would you think a concept of a professional sexologue/massa-kinesitherapeuthologue / DOMINANT MASTER with the intention to not only tamed or satisfied the pig/sub/dom or anything in between that lies in us but also OUR altersexgo. would be a service wanted ?

Where instead of an hourly rate sex-session , I would have a 2h service with brief/debrief and goals adjustments? Use the BDSM experience and knowledge that comes with it to train help someone to be a full round balanced pig IN control ... but also with relaxations services and more therapeutical action if needed.

See .. might need your help to clarify the right branding TO offer something very different.

Jamal