I am surprised to hear an escort say he likes to voice verify with a phone call. I'd love to do this when I hire. I rarely ask anymore though. I think many providers see it as an imposition. But then again in the last two weeks I've had two guys flake on me that I tried to hire. So maybe it's only the flakes that see it that way. As you say, comes with the territory.
I've never owned an iPhone or iOS device so I didn't really follow the comments about the colors of the texts. I'm guessing it's N/A to those of us on team Android.
I make sure I hear a voice on the phone in order to set it up (I don't care if he's piloting the international space station while his wife is in labor next to him, if he can't call, I'm not interested)
I don't take calls from blocked numbers
If he sounds flakey I'll call back to try and discern if it's a google voice number (the equivalent of a blocked number)
I keep a record of his number after he flakes, because he's going to reach out to you again in six months
It's not a bad idea to call the hotel and get patched through to the room before heading over, especially if something strikes you as 'off'
The likelihood of a booking actually happening is inversely proportional to the number of texts, calls and emails beforehand
Sorry to hear of your troubles. Unfortunately, it comes with the territory.
JoeyLA reacted to + BlueSky in How to deal with flakes.
