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That's like the weirdest thing ever to do. One guy did that to me before sex and I was looking at him like wtf.. I'm skinny and where he was punching me was hurting already from the way I sleep. I was ready to choke him and leave the hotel.

It's painful after a few punches. I told him to stop but he didn't listen cause he claimed, "You're the cutest thing ever and I love your body." He could love my body but don't abuse it.

That's like the weirdest thing ever to do. One guy did that to me before sex and I was looking at him like wtf.. I'm skinny and where he was punching me was hurting already from the way I sleep. I was ready to choke him and leave the hotel.

I'll give it a try and I have burner number already so I'm good there. I never give out my real number unless it's like a guy from grindr or something. Clients, no. I'm definitely smart on that one.

I'm trying not to. I try really hard to keep up with my credit but life is just a bitch to me. But thank you (:

Exactly. All a good credit score means, is that you're more qualified to acquire more debt. Ain't that some shit? However, he says he doesn't have place to host or transportation...so maybe he doesn't have those basic necessities.
 
And like I said, even despite what I mentioned...the business is going to be different depending on where and who you are. Last year I was in a different area than I am currently. In some areas, one is lucky to get the clients one gets throughout the week/month, because the rest of these mofos are full of SH...and like I said elsewhere, we as black escorts probably deal with it more.
 
That's why I'm extra tougher now than ever, and before I started.

Practice makes perfect!
 
But seriously, being an escort is running a business. In business, you have to invest money to make money. If you can’t even afford $10-20 to book an Uber or a Lyft to get around, then you’re NOT in the position to start escorting successfully.
 
I understand that you need money, but it seems like you think escorting is gonna be easier or faster money than most other jobs. It’s not the case unless you work in an extremely reckless way. It takes time to build a client base and you have to invest your own money for advertising and transportation to reach them.
 
Yes it’s true that eventually, an established professional can make quick cash same-day and that’s very convenient. But no NEWBIE is gonna be able to find two clients same-day to make hundreds of dollars to cover a car bill. That is the perk of being an EXPERIENCED escort.
 
Yes getting a pay check job does involve a wait to get paid. You have to work for two weeks, maybe wait another week to get that pay check. A two week wait for what? $500-700? Sure, it SOUNDS like an escort can make more money and faster, but how many escorts invest $60 into a RM ad and $50 into a burner phone only to get just 1-2 clients their first month of work? Tons of them. Let’s say $200 each and be generous and say first month there was 2 clients. $20 uber expenses for each client. $400 - $150 investment = $350 of profit for the first month of being an escort. Sort of makes the hourly pay check job look like a damn good option. This isn’t an abnormal experience for new escorts.
 
If your panic is about DEBT and CREDIT SCORE, just get a grip on yourself. Tons of people are in lots of debt and have bad credit. You just need to get over it and accept that this is going to be the case for you for now. Put that shit on the back burner and focus on getting your basic life needs together. You need housing, transportation, food, etc. If all that is provided for you then quit panicking.
 
Your desperation is absolutely a dangerous factor as you consider entering the industry. You should not try to escort until it disappears; otherwise you will make bad decisions and subject yourself unneccesarily to negative experiences. Have a clear business-oriented approach to escorting and you can succeed. But as with any business, you will operate in the red at first and it will take time for you to draw a profit, especially a profit that beats a wage job.
 
Approaching this as the business endeavour that it is rather than a quick and easy way to make money is what will make you a good escort. That and lots of practice. Best of luck.

Yeah, don't let the credit bullies get you down. Most people have debt & manage to get out of it eventually, others simply learn to live with it. Don't let it affect you emotionally, it's not worth the stress. #StayStrong & GL w/ escorting if you choose to go into it. <3

If it is of interest to try, why not do both. Get a job and try escorting in the evenings or when your off. It could put a few extra bucks in your pocket and you can see if you like it.

Just relax, go for a hike or whatever it is you do to calm yourself down. Some of us have been there. There was a time when I was younger when I was living off ramen and was down to using pennies to buy a 1 dollar noodle packet.
 
Donald Trump has declared bankruptcy multiple times It happens. Figure out something temporary-live/board situation where you work and get everything in return and some extra money. Then think of options, can you pay off your debt with interest and fines or bankruptcy-not the best, but an option.
 
If you are getting into escorting, fine- but you seem to be desperate now. just be careful about bareback, drugs etc. -things you may be willing to take a risk on now, but may regret later.
 
I do enjoy escorts, but make sure that is what you want to do. All of us sell out in some way-work in dead end soul crushing jobs and we have to sit there 9-5 or longer. Do what you have to, but there are always options and be safe-desperation leads you to do very risky things.

Good to hear. I hope things turn around for you. I've been there a time or two in my life, so I know digging out from upheaval and setbacks is a long road...

thanks. I thought about it and I have a job coming soon this week so that can be a start for me. And I know haha. He's really honest so I understand.

Going into escorting out of sheer desperation is not what I would call the right motivation.
 
Be careful with yourself: The decisions you make now will have consequences for a long, long time.

Are you near a Walmart or a Target? Go stand for an hour or so at the entrance of a store like that and look at all the men entering or leaving. Any of them could be your prospective client. How do you feel about being stark naked in a room with any of them? Can you deal with any of them fondling your genitals? Can you imagine kissing them? Will be able to get aroused and have sex with them - top or bottom?
 
These are the questions you should ask yourself - in all honesty.

By reading the tread below and following the sagacious Advise provided just last week to another newbie who did not bother to read or reply --- NO NEED TO REINVENT THE WHEEL AGAIN!!
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/i-want-to-move-to-new-york-and-commit-to-escorting.134417/page-3#post-1482878
 
Good Lick!