GNitro

If an escort is particular about how they want to be contacted, they'll usually indicate that in their ad. If they don't state a preference, I usually start with a text message, or contact them via the site they're on (email via rentmen, for example). One message will suffice, if he doesn't answer within a day or two, try again; if still no response, move on to someone else.

 

The only time I'd contact someone months ahead of time would be if he wasn't local, but announced travel plans to where I was (ie, "Saw you're coming to Detroit in May, I'd love to meet up while you're here"). Otherwise, I wouldn't contact him until MUCH closer, and you're ready to take the plunge - a day or two ahead.

Thanks, poolboy48220. I can work with that advice.

BTW, I just got a text message from a guy I called last month (no answer) and it was a homophobic death threat. The number was 424-738-8308 on boyrentals.com. Thought I'd put that scumbag on blast. Just filed a police report. Stay safe.

Hey gang,

I'm trying to get a hold of an escort and want to make sure I'm going about it right. Should I leave a text message with him? More than one message? Email? Also, if I see that an ad was posted last year, what are the chances he's still working now?

I'd like to spend time with him in a couple of months from now. Will he write me off as a time-waster if I ask him if he's going to be around then? Rather, should I try to contact him right before I plan on our visit? I'm really not messing around and I'm not trying to bullshit anybody. My biggest fear is that he'll ignore me as some vacillating dufus.

Lastly, does anybody know if this guy is still working? http://www.boyscort.com/seattle-escorts/559-407-5855/?pid=43368858

I'll be grateful for any feedback I can get. Cheers.