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AC Kreamer

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  1. Sorry guys, I meant to write I am South Asian (autocorrects to Southeast when I reply via my phone).

     

    It encompasses a lot of groups, but Indian is the largest population in the world and the States.

     

    Funny that the conversation of Southeast Asians came up, because I had a conversation with a Filipino friend and said that even among Asians there is a ranking in the gay community.

     

    Filipinos who have Spanish blood are at the top because they pass for Latino and mixed race. Then the "brown boys" aka the Vietnamese and Thai for reasons stated by other posters. They also seem to be more hung. Then the East Asians -- usually Koreans because they are taller and have more square Western features, followed by Chinese and Japanese. Then South Asians on the bottom.

     

    Unless you are Northern Indian with a fair complexion and light eyes. They are revered on the continent and why you seem them in Bollywood.

     

    I don't see very many Indians, Pakistanis, Nepalese out. It might be internalized fear and cultural stigma. But also knowing you are not seen as attractive hurts. I have one Indian friend who is out. He has a beautiful dark hair and brown skin. The most dazzling white smile. Many people think he is Cuban. And when he tells some suitors he is Indian they change their opinions about him. Nothing has changed from when they thought he was Cuban versus Indian. That, to me, proves racism exists.

     

    It's why a masseur asked me if I am Muslim (there are actually lots of Muslims in India) but it is none of his business and immaterial to the massage. Another said he was glad I didn't smell like an Indian. Out of the dozen or so LA masseurs I've gone to, I would say two were outright rude, and two seemed to have "issues." So that's one third -- not a good percentage. The rest -- the majority -- have been wonderful.

    Not to be a reverse racist, but I think south asian guys are hot! :)

  2. Yes! Met him first at a thai massage place off laurel Canyon below Riverside drive. Good massage. MT and HE. He’s got a nice piece that gets hard quick. Been to him a couple more times. Place charges 40 and I think he requests an additional $50 for HE. My limit is hands only so not sure about anything else.

    Thanks for the reply! He quoted me $70 for massage at his home, so that plus tip is in range with your $90!

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