Studman69

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

Also, I would not want to promise any activity, then find when someone arrives, that I cannot find the enthusiasm. Awkw

Awkward for both!

One thing is allot of massage therapist will not promise a release out of fear of loosing their license. a massage therapist promising a release in the eyes of law enforcement is the same as a escort promising to suck your dick or fuck your ass for a fee. a release is prostitution in the eyes of the law. In some states they actually call it masturbation for hire. Best approach is to ask if the massage is full body? if they say yes there you go. Don't ask if there's a release or happy ending you will make a nervous masseur pass you by. I lost a few clients because I wouldn't promise a release in a email

Actually, a happy ending can be a very great way to totally release all stress. That is if masseur seems into it. If it is robotic, I can pass. It's s great way to interest returning clients, especially if discreet.

I'm of two minds on this:

 

If I hired someone from a source other than a gay focused website and nothing in his ad indicated sensual/erotic, I certainly wouldn't expect a release at the end.

 

If I hire a guy who lists himself as a sensual or erotic masseur on a gay focused website, though, I do expect a release to be part of the session. Massagem4m has a therapeutic category and masseurs can choose to limit their ads to that category if that's the service they offer.

 

The bottom line is that I don't think providing a manual release at the end of a massage in any way denigrates the masseur or cheapens the experience, so I wouldn't consider saying "no" to a release if offered unless I really didn't want one for whatever reason.

He is legit. Probably got impression you wanted more than just massage. He is upfront about being "just legit massage". Would be nice though.