Chandler Midas

P.S. No one can say with 100% certainty they will connect with someone they don't know. Impossible. It's fair to expect your chosen guy to be present and energized, but there's no way to predict the future and guarantee you'll get everything you want, even if you text back and forth and speak on the phone. So, please, do *not* demand such a guarantee. If you have been doing so, that's a valid reason to be blocked. A good escort is not going to knowingly overpromise. I would self-check make you aren't accidentally flashing "control issues" when expressing your needs, because control issues are one of the worst red flags.
 
You and he can only promise to put your best selves forward, but if you can't accept risk and relinquish some level of control, hiring is not for you. I enjoy the risk as an escort; I sometimes take on...difficult clients for the personal challenge and professional growth. Being able to will myself to perform and satisfy and end up geniuinely enjoying myself and connecting where others could not gives me a rush. But even the best escorts have an occassional dud, and it's nobody's fault.
 
If you are anxious, do your due diligence in picking somone who has a track record of leaving clients satisfied in the way that you are looking for, then relinquish control, jump in, and let the chips fall where they may. Clearly, hiring a hot-looking rookie with no track record is not the best idea for you yet, but that also means you're going to be dealing with escorts whose patience with your worries will have tighter limits. I believe providers have a duty to be polite and friendly to all inquiries, but within reason. A new client looking for just an hour probably won't get an excess of unpaid-for time and attention from an escort with competing priorites and several other potential hires. Just sayin.

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Sounds like the OP is fine until he starts communicating his needs/expecations. That is when he gets blocked, indicating that what you are saying in that space is the dealbreaker.
 
OP, try to listen the collective wisdom so far: you may be exhausting the escort with a laundry list of rules and requirements, making you seem high maintenance and needy. Are you texting long, detailed prose with a romance novel of expectations? If so stop.
 
One, it's not working.
 
Two, it's not necessary. You can express, succintly, that you're not looking for disconnect wham-bam-goodbye and desire some level of intimacy, care, and connection (and by the way, this is a fair quest). It doesn't take a whole lot of back-and-forth. And if you've done your due diliegence and are contactng a popular, well-reviewed escort, chances are he's a people person who knows what he's doing and doesn't have problems connecting and bonding with clients. You don't need to choreograph for him how to do his job; nobody likes being micromanaged. He'll know what you're getting at.
 
And I'd suggest reflecting on feedback about adjusting expections. The post reminding clients that they are not the center of the escort's world -- that he has other legitimiate responsibilities and priorities -- was spot on. Your response -- that a pro should be able to make you feel like he is the center of the world when he's with you -- is true, but think about what you're saying. You want the escort to center you *before* he's with you. As has been pointed out, this is not fair, and even if it were, it's not really possible for a guy that's in-demand due to that thing called time.
 
Some clients seem to forget, or not care, that we too have to eat, sleep, groom, medicate, socialize, call mom, workout to keep that rockin body you expect, run errands, do household chores, work on life goals, AND be emotionally present available for our already-scheduled appointments. Expecting an escort to *also* commit emotionally to the demands and small talk of the army of complete strangers texting and emailing him daily is disrespectful, especially when experience has taught him that 90% of them are flakes, weirdos, and/or pic collectors.
 
I think most mature, well-adjusted adults can understand that. And a popular, seasoned escort is not going to, and doesn't have to, waste energy on those who can't.

You're getting blocked because they assume that you're cyber masturbating. I've been seeing a semi retired escort for about a year, and I've been privy to some of the nonsense - repeated phone calls, 20 texts, etc. that he receives, even with his ad down. Escorts assume that you're wasting their time, like waiters expect a shitty tip from someone that falls all over them and talks to them throughout the meal. I've only had a phone conversation prior to meeting once (actually with the one I'm seeing now) before we headed out for an extended trip. I've met one escort in a bar before traveling so we could feel each other out, and paid him for an hour for his time. You would be best served by writing ONE succinct email with your desires, and then gamble, preferably with someone that is reviewed here. The BFE is a tough find when you take the BF out of the equation. Stop overthinking, and take a gamble with someone that is reviewed, and that you find attractive. The worst thing that will happen is that you get laid.

Kyle Can u messsge me Again, my messages were somehow swept when I cleaned my phone! Looking forward to meeting with u

Chandler Midas and I have shared a couple of texts today. He provided his RM private pics pass code and—trust me—he has legitimate "model looks". Sculpted face, sexy bedroom eyes and full lips. Hope to meet up with him while he's in Southern California (for only 3 days) next week. If his rate is in line with the local "norm" I'd certainly take one for the team and report (also give a full review in the REVIEWS section here to help the DR members as well as maybe him). I'm submitting reviews today for JuniorNYC (which will be glowing because he's THAT good and one of the nicest men you'll ever meet) as well as two others that are long overdue. Life's been very hectic the second half of 2017 but I'm catching up...one inch at a time.

Damn! My ass hurts just looking at this guy's RM ad. Hurts in kind of a good way, but I think I need to take an ibuprofen anyway.
 
As for my contribution to the thread, I'd highly recommend that the OP try out Nate Grimes and Sherman Maus, each of whom is based in Los Angeles.
 
https://rent.men/nategrimes
 
https://rent.men/ironmaus

Hey man!!! Hit me up!!

Anyone come across any huge escorts?? I usually like under 35 or so and want huge size any race.

Does it matter where? Check out Chandler currently in Columbia but usually resides in Miami.
https://rent.men/KingmidasXXL
I also like Rodrigo in Miami but his ad has been inactive for a year now. Big beautiful dick.
https://rent.men/RODRIGOBRENNAN

Welcome to the forum !

Hello guys, thank you all for inquiring about my ad. I was pleasantly surprised to gain knowledge of this site. It is something that is well needed. A little about myself and my travel history. I noticed somebody asked about me last year or maybe a little more than a year ago, I was living in West Palm Beach at the time. I then moved to Australia for one year. I arrived home from Australia in October, And while I had a great time there I was very happy to be back in America, after all - it is home. I have met some really cool people since I start escorting a year ago, and a few have actually become lifelong friends of mine. I hate being that guy that thinks that everybody uses his pictures. But the truth is - that my pictures have been used several times, on several different sites, and in several different countries. Since this forum is so informative and genuine, I am happy to FaceTime with anyone who would like confirmation of my real existence. I am unsure why there hasn’t been anyone that I have come in contact with on this thread, maybe they’re living in the Stone Age - like myself lol. I look forward to meeting some of you.
cheers guys

Hello guys, thank you all for inquiring about my ad. I was pleasantly surprised to gain knowledge of this site. It is something that is well needed. A little about myself and my travel history. I noticed somebody asked about me last year or maybe a little more than a year ago, I was living in West Palm Beach at the time. I then moved to Australia for one year. I arrived home from Australia in October, And while I had a great time there I was very happy to be back in America, after all - it is home. I have met some really cool people since I start escorting a year ago, and a few have actually become lifelong friends of mine. I hate being that guy that thinks that everybody uses his pictures. But the truth is - that my pictures have been used several times, on several different sites, and in several different countries. Since this forum is so informative and genuine, I am happy to FaceTime with anyone who would like confirmation of my real existence. I am unsure why there hasn’t been anyone that I have come in contact with on this thread, maybe they’re living in the Stone Age - like myself lol. I look forward to meeting some of you.
cheers guys

Hello guys, thank you all for inquiring about my ad. I was pleasantly surprised to gain knowledge of this site. It is something that is well needed. A little about myself and my travel history. I noticed somebody asked about me last year or maybe a little more than a year ago, I was living in West Palm Beach at the time. I then moved to Australia for one year. I arrived home from Australia in October, And while I had a great time there I was very happy to be back in America, after all - it is home. I have met some really cool people since I start escorting a year ago, and a few have actually become lifelong friends of mine. I hate being that guy that thinks that everybody uses his pictures. But the truth is - that my pictures have been used several times, on several different sites, and in several different countries. Since this forum is so informative and genuine, I am happy to FaceTime with anyone who would like confirmation of my real existence. I am unsure why there hasn’t been anyone that I have come in contact with on this thread, maybe they’re living in the Stone Age - like myself lol. I look forward to meeting some of you.
cheers guys

And, I daresay King Midas can put the "touch" on you. . .early afternoon, warming up. . .

That's gold.

King Midas thinks that there is a sucker with cash in hand born every minute. . .EGAD, I think I've made a pun!!! Albeit, a very poor one. . .it is early morning.

Hello guys, thank you all for inquiring about my ad. I was pleasantly surprised to gain knowledge of this site. It is something that is well needed. A little about myself and my travel history. I noticed somebody asked about me last year or maybe a little more than a year ago, I was living in West Palm Beach at the time. I then moved to Australia for one year. I arrived home from Australia in October, And while I had a great time there I was very happy to be back in America, after all - it is home. I have met some really cool people since I start escorting a year ago, and a few have actually become lifelong friends of mine. I hate being that guy that thinks that everybody uses his pictures. But the truth is - that my pictures have been used several times, on several different sites, and in several different countries. Since this forum is so informative and genuine, I am happy to FaceTime with anyone who would like confirmation of my real existence. I am unsure why there hasn’t been anyone that I have come in contact with on this thread, maybe they’re living in the Stone Age - like myself lol. I look forward to meeting some of you.
cheers guys