Bigginuc

I would love that a lot!

Why don’t you two kiss and make up...Can I watch?

I’m so lonely right now, if I could afford it, I’d pay a high price for any attention from one if these hunks I see on this site. Just a hug, a long embrace, s kiss and a comforting word would be heaven. Just to lay there and hear him breath and smell him would complete me and give me fantasies to last a lifetime. If my equipment pleased him a little that would just be the icing on the cake.

My brother and I were born in Army hospitals. He was born in North Carolina and was cut. I was born in Alabama and left intact. I wish I had known what I know now when my parents were alive. I would have thanked them.

Well, once again you’ve boosted my ego and gave me a chubby. Thanks for both.

Really? I would think an escort would have seen all the big cocks he wanted. Looks like he’d become less interested after a while in the business.

Thank you Michael.

You have some excellent thoughts on this subject. Thanks for sharing.

I'm already smitten, will have sex with HIM for free, and have a Big 401K..... :D

I’m flattered man! Is that a big 401k in your pocket or are you just happy to see me? (Smile).

Hey Boo Welcome

 

Just Pick a Couple of guys - reach out - tell them you are a first timer

and what you are interests are -- And see how you feel by the reaction

 

pick one - make an appt. And go have fun! If you don't like the first guy - then try another one!!

 

And if that Pic is of you in a jock you will get lots of smiles from Gentle Callers and Gay/Bi men wherever you go

Thanks man. Sounds like a plan. An expensive plan, but I’ve spent money on things that brought me no pleasure at all. And thanks for the compliment. Yes it’s me (blush).

LOL! Not quite. That guy is circumcised. I’m not.

There's a lot of ageism perpetuated by older guys, as Tarte Gogo said in a later post.

Guilty!

I assume like most people, you do not control your erections. So if you are not attracted to him, you are not getting hard, which means it is going to be a real disappointment for him anyway. So you are right to say no and save everybody time.

 

You cannot control your preferences. They may be shaped by your genes, your childhood, your culture... we don’t really know, but we know that preference is not something we control. I don’t blame myself for preferring hot young Latinos and hot young Asian guys rather than older white guys like myself.

 

Blame my ageist culture if you want, but not me, I didn’t choose it, I was born in it.

I wished I had joined this site years ago. I’m getting quite an education, not to mention a big ego boost. Thanks everyone.

Have you tried dating guys your own age?

I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

Is anyone else intrigued by his casual mention of his member?

I’m not sure how to take your comment Victor, so I’ll just say I’m intrigued that you’re intrigued. Coming from a guy who looks like you, all kinds of fantasies just popped into my head (both of them).

Thank you Rich. I’m glad you can’t see me now. It has been a long time since I blushed, but my face is definitely turning pink. I’m very flattered.

From reading the post you sound like a great guy. Any of the escorts I know, myself included would be happy to meet you.

 

I was just in CO, next time I'm in and you see me feel free to reach out.

P.S. and as for some treating you like Gods, you deserve it. You work very hard to stay in shape and look your best and that takes a lot of work a determination. I respect and admire anyone who does that. Yes, you put your pants on one leg at a time, but oh how great those legs look.

Greg,

Now I feel horrible. I didn’t mean to offend anyone with my post. I was just being honest, which very often gets me in trouble. I’m ignorant to all this and apologize for making you feel uneasy or hurting your feelings. I don’t feel good about myself, and I was probably looking for someone to tell me I was all wet in my thinking. Again, so sorry if my post upset you.

Welcome to the Forum, @Bigginuc.

 

 

You are not being stupid for worrying about this, but I think the worry is unfounded. To me, it is grounded in FEAR: False Evidence Appearing Real.

 

 

My experience is the overwhelming majority of escorts I've hired are nice and respectful. That's not to say many behave differently, but it seems like the jerks are in the minority. Here are a few ways you can determine whether someone is nice/respectful or not:

• Read and pay attention to his ad. If the tone feels "off" or conveys a less-than-friendly vibe, take a pass.
  
• Pay attention to the tone of his replies. Almost all of the guys I've had great experiences with have taken the time to provide well-written and obviously well thought-out replies to my inquiries. Those who have been more brief have used a professional tone.
  
• Be honest about your situation. If this is your first time with an escort, say so. Likewise, if you have limited man-on-man experience say so. It will help the escort.
  

Thank you so much. What a great find when I stumbled across this site. Everyone is so nice and helpful. And not judgmental.

Find a doctor that will prescribe REVATIO slidenafil. they come in 20mg tablets at about $1.00 each. To get the full effect of 100 mg Viagra, take 4-5 at a time. Cost ya $5.00 instead of $40....

Thanks man. Good info.

LMAO! Actually, I’ve ever had that problem, but who knows, I might be so nervous I’ll get a limp-on (get it?). Trouble is those things are too expensive. I sure would like to find some cheap though just in case.

Thanks man. I’m starting to get my hopes built up along with my confidence.

Thank you buddy. Appreciate your advise.

Don't be afraid that you'll have a great time! Communicate you're wants/desires ahead of time to see if you're a match to the provider you reach out to.

You’re not being stupid... just overtly cautious and nervous. I understand the shyness in meeting up with an escort for the first time. Many of us have gone through it. It’s ok to be nervous going into something new. Just don’t let nerves prevent you on missing out something you want to do or desire. Also don’t let what you think some other person may be thinking wrongly color what may actually happen. I mean just because a guy is hella attractive doesn’t mean he won’t find you or something about you attractive.

 

There are many escorts who find older men sexy. A good example, is Mike Gaite.

 

Do your research. Find someone or a group of someones that appeal to you. Read his reviews, if he has any. Ask around the forum. It will be ok.

Thank you very much. This really helps. I appreciate your taking the time to respond. You’re the best.