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Is there a reason why most bottoms can't top? Does it hurt when they top someone or they just don't feel anything?

Are you saying I should get a bigger dick to play with?

Memorial day is coming and I was wondering if we providers get more busy during that time or not.

Bottoms can't get hard?

Is he straight or gay for pay?

Well, to be fair, he has only 3 negative comments out of 29 reviews. I saw him recently when he passed me by and he is actually more attractive in person. I just couldn't tell if his body looked exactly like it looks in his profile because he was wearing big baggy gym clothes. But he wasn't fat nor anything like that. Stats seem real.

I don't want to ruin my hole. Also, I doubt I will be able to take a first. It will hurt.

What should I do next? Take a bigger one or take more average-size ones? He was kinda thin but his dick felt great and nothing like the dildos. We didn't even use a lot of lube. I wasn't even prepared and neither very horny. My man cum right away though. And yes, he was an escort and had a lot of work that day according to what he told me. I supposedly have a very tight hole.

I tried bottoming finally but his dick was average (decent length but not thick at all). I did feel pleasure. It hurt the whole night after we were done though. We didn't even last 7 minutes. I wonder if bigger dicks will feel the same. There are so many well-endowed hot guys that want to top for me.

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Yes, I made another thread. Sorry. I follow the fitness influencer in the pics and he doesn’t live in France. But the profile is GOLD. Hmmm ok.

Being an escort can be very stressful with so many people texting you to play games. Out of 50 interactions I have, 40 are of people trying to steal my time asking for nudes or simply trying to sext (many see us as a fantasy and like to do the latter). It's really frustrating at times.

I don't want to sound harsh, but maybe that was an indirect way of saying he didn't want to meet. I once had a rude client I decided not to work for again and when he wanted to re-do, I quoted him more money than I was supposed so he loses interest. It worked.

That thread is from 7 years ago. I was naive and unexperienced as hell and to a large extent closeted. Interesting. I truly forgot about it.

Don't forget about Miami. After New York, it is likely the most competitive city for escorts in the USA. Then I guess it's L. A.? I'm surprised Las Vegas isn't listed. Or is Vegas not really good for escorting? Someone on another thread said it was risky for the business.

I think New York is in the upper first-tier range while Chicago in the lower. In my definition it's not really about how big a city is but more about how expensive and competitive. Houston and Phoenix (for example) are bigger than both Boston and San Francisco and to me they are 2nd-tier cities ranking lower than those two.

Can give example of what you consider "second-tier" cities? To me first-tier citied would be: New York San Francisco D. C. Los Angeles Miami Chicago Boston San Diego

If it gives you an idea, I've been profiled by gay dudes lol. As I got older it doesn't happen as much anymore though. There was one time this hot porn actor and I met on Grindr while I was visiting L. A. and we decided to hook up. He didn't believe I was gay at first. Long story. I think there is a line between straight-acting and masculine.

Well, I do. It's also in my profile.

Would that be a problem if it was market research? I don't think so. I think some people assumme I'm straight because of the way I carry myself. Even some of my gay friends at first told me I was supposedly "too suave" to be gay. Whatever that means. I personally think it has something to do with my New York urban Latino swagger. I absorbed it unconsciously.

I have "bi" in my profile and used to have "gay" and "ask me" before. I would never change it to "straight" because I'm simply not straight. I used to identify as "bi" at some point in my life but that was probably me being funny. I think you are assumming. That's not cute. Half of the escorts in the business do not kiss. I don't know what's surprising about it. Escorts are entitled to have their limitations. Why would I bottom? I've never bottomed in my life.

That seems quite fair to me.

Well, not only straight providers don't kiss. My clients usually don't ask for kissing. But that's because they figure out from my profile.

Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight. But this is just my opinion.

Would you rather hire a bi, gay or straight provider? I ask because a lot of clients find the idea of having sex with a straight or bi man more exciting. Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Do you think identifying as bi, gay or straight makes a different when trying to find potential clients?