Encantomel

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What does this really mean? I've seen it in several posts... I think we all treat them with respect and show common courtesy. The only "disrespect" I've been guilty is being late a few times (but I notify them)... and not going as 'far' with the fun as they offer... but other than that, you just greet them, arrive freshly showered, maybe go to the bathroom, and lie on the table/bed. Never fart while being massaged, just go as far with the fun as feel comfortable for both of us, etc.... I mean there's not much room for disrespecting the masseur.

 

What I am asking really is how would you disrespect a masseur? Can anyone give examples?

Showing up for a massage un-showered.

Perhaps this would be more of a question for clients, but here it goes ...

 

I messaged an escort on Friday to make an appointment for Saturday evening at my hotel. Communication seemed to be fine. Saturday afternoon, he messages me to confirm. That's great, I thought. He's on the ball. Then 30 minutes before our scheduled time, he messages to say he would be half an hour late. Half an hour later, he actually does show up. He was late, but I didn't have a problem with this.

 

He comes into my room and we have a bit of a conversation. He goes to the bathroom and takes, from what I can hear, a pretty substantial piss. He comes back, and he starts to remove his clothes. The pictures that he had sent me were clearly out of date, which was rather disappointing. He didn't have the physique that he once did. No matter, I can get over that. I move on.

 

So, I'm lying on the bed, and he's licking my nipples. Doing a fairly good job, I might add. Then all of a sudden, he stops. I look down, and see that his eyes are closed. I think he has fallen asleep! I give him him a few nudges, and he comes to. He doesn't acknowledge anything and sort of continues.

 

I wanted to ride his cock. So, he's lying on his back, and I hand him a condom. Before he put it on, he fell asleep again. I ask him if he is ok, and he said yes. Doesn't really acknowledge anything. Finally, he gets the condom on, and I get into position, and he falls asleep - almost instantly. This time he is snoring. What's the best way to wake up a narcoleptic escort? I give him a few nudges before he comes to and I again, ask him if he is ok. He nods and carries on as if nothing had happened.

 

This has never happened to me before. I don't think he was on drugs. During our conversation, he seemed lucid and coherent. I honestly think he was suffering from narcolepsy.

 

I pretty much ended the session then, and got him on his way. He got up, went to the washroom, got dressed and we said our goodbyes.

 

How would you deal with a narcoleptic escort?

Wasn’t the main character , a male escort, in ‘My Own Private Idaho’ narcoleptic?

Some clients are coming by my house unannounced

Maybe they are just finding other careers - or settling down with partners - or just going back to dating = or have an established circle of loyal admirers -- or they just are not advertising on RM and have found alternative ways of marketing themselves

 

--- OR maybe you are right

I didn’t retire, just built up a regular client base and stopped paying for advertising.

I’m thinking of not using my house anymore for massages and using hotels instead. What is the consensus on this method?

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