JudasKane

Thank you, @Keith30309 - This made my day!

Top/vers/bottom is merely an indicator of who would be doing anal penetration (or in the case of BDSM -- who is the active participant).

Imagine the possibilities if we didn't let this label for a single sexual activity (anal sex) limit the types of interactions that can take place between two (or more) people.

( Also, I top and I love swallowing. )

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.

However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.

For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.

I think I would be remiss if I didn't mention a fantastic piece about BFE by @tylerthebadwolf for thought catalog - https://thoughtcatalog.com/tyler-darlig-ulv/2017/05/what-being-a-professional-companion-really-is-because-it-isnt-sex-work/

Out of curiosity, I created a profile. Very sparsely populated, but it is a new site and I noticed one familiar face from the area.

However, there is an additional red flag that I don't believe has been discussed. Escorts have two options for additional verification....

1. Approve by Skype - (that seems reasonable enough)

Or

2. Approve by Meeting - "give a FREE sample session to our representative to get his trusted comment in your profile" --- this is setting off all sorts of alarms for me personally.

Perhaps a little of both @Keith30309