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Who’s Diego and who’s Alex?

https://rentmasseur.com/EvoRod This is his whole about me section: "Brazilian newly arrived in San Diego!". So I wouldn't expect much of a massage...

Yes, I've met several. Usually through work or friends. They identify as straight, but they are curious. All of them have been married with a woman or with girlfriends. All of them I've been the first guy they've approached for sex. Of course it starts slow (oral, kissing, massage, etc)... but after a few meetings it always ends up with anal (not always successfully) and they've always been the bottom. Works for me 😉

Just to cross reference.

Good new pics and he's got onlyfans now

Any updates

https://rentmasseur.com/MyMasseur

Back in San Diego

Yes. As I mentioned already, I did the same thing for a friend that is older than I am. He stayed with me for around a year. He saved money. And then he moved out to live on his own. Also, I host travelers for free. Usually is a few days to a couple of weeks.

Yeah, I've been in this situation before. I had a friend that stayed with me for a year or so, I was charging him 1/4 of the normal rent... he saved money, he moved out own his own and everything was cool. The only difference now is that I met this friend via rentmen, because he used to be an escort. And I met the other guy on through friends.

Thank you for your comment. I get your point. Because of the nature of his job, he's traveling most of the time. So at most he'll be at my place during weekends. And as others suggested, I'll have a contract for X amount of months, and renew it if we both agree. If I need to hookup/hire I can always do it during the week. Or maybe he can join 😉 But yeah, it could be awkward too. As I see it, I'd like to to help him for a few months while his finances get back on track and he can rent on his own.

I have a guest bedroom and bathroom. I’ll offer that one to him. Asking him to stay in my bedroom feels predatory in my opinion.

@BuffaloKyle@keroscenefire Good idea, I'll download a roommate template and fill it out. It'll clarify also details as smoking, visits, etc.

This is my main dilemma... I mean, I know he's in a vulnerable state,not only money wise, but he's had some family problems, so he's a little down / depressed, and I do not want to feel like I'm taking advantage... So maybe I guess I won't initiate sex... but if he's willing, or if he wants to sleep in my bed... then I'm down for that

Yes. He had tickets to go to a VERY big event and he decided not to go, sold his tickets (I think around 300 USD) and told me it was because he knew it was not the right thing to do (money wise), and he's not drinking already... he knew it was going to be very hard for him not to drink there. And he's been offered a better paying job at another company... but I told him is not how much he makes ($) but how he spends it ($).

Well, he's not really an escort anymore, he used to escort. I met him on rentmen several years ago, and we've become good friends. He has a job now that is not relating to escorting, but he's bad at managing his money, he spends more money than he should in clothes, out with friends, drinking, etc. So he has a lot of debts now... He's young around 24ish (I'm early 40s). At the moment he doesn't feel comfortable living with his family anymore, he lives with them a few days every couple of weeks, because his job takes him around the country, and he goes back home very couple of weeks. He wants to turn his life around and start fresh. Start making good decisions, taking better care of his money, start saving, quit drinking, going to parties that often, etc. He's a very good guy, good person, honest. I think we have a good connection. I'm live by myself, but I always have travelers visiting, family, friends, etc. So I wouldn't have a problem with him staying with me. I don't plan on charging him rent... at least not for a few months... while he starts saving and turning his life around. I wouldn't see him as a roommate really, more like a friend that I'm willing to help for a while... Eventually my goal would be to guide him and teach him a little about money management, so he can afford to move to a place on his own, or rent with someone else. Has anyone been in this situation before? How do you handle it? What about sex? I wouldn't feel comfortable initiating sex with him... since I won't be paying him anymore... Edit: The fact that he'll be around only on weekends at most, makes this situation something I'm willing to do. I think having a regular roommate situation where he's at home everyday, is not something that I can do for a long time (a few weeks at best).

Any updates on this guy_

New pic...

https://rentmasseur.com/JOESTAR

I usually never meet masseurs without reading comments here, but I gave this guy a try. His ad is brand new, a couple of days old, so I was not expecting to find out much about him in here. Good communication. Looks like his pics. A little chatty for my taste, but if you are not chatty, he won't push it. I went to his place, it is small but nice. Massage on bed. Good pressure, you can tell he has some experience. He said he used to work at a SPA. I was nude, he wore briefs. No HE, but I was not expecting it based on price points. Not sure if he offers more. I didn't ask. Based on the price and the experience he delivered he's good.

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