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It was my second time booking a session with him. And as soon as he saw me (even before going inside the “therapy room”) he slapped my ass and grabbed my crotch. It felt weird to me. And not very professional. But he’s good at what he does. Not sure if he already moved to a new location but I don’t like the place where I’ve seen him. Bathroom is like far far away. Is a commercial building. Homeless outside. Other therapists nearby. I always try to book late on weekends so the place is empty. Can’t imaging going there and being really busy. I haven’t seen him again. Would I repeat? Yeah. I think so. But I found a really really good masseur off Grindr near my area with 90 min sessions for $100 and he’s provided full service to me (no upsell or anything) Not sure if he does that all the time.

He’s in San Diego. For almost 2 weeks. Ugh! No desire to hire him. Not even to find him on happn.

Any updates on this guy?

Best wishes. Good luck ? Report back.

You saved a lot of money by not meeting a maybe bipolar and impatient guy. Perhaps he didn’t take his medications that day. ??‍♂️

Ah, well. I always show my face. I send a pic showing it. Also I sent a pic shirtless. (I don't have a pic posted in my profile, and I have no info -just basic stats-, no age). I'd say I'm what the gay community calls an 'otter'. Lean, hairy. I'm not muscular or athletic. I don't have extra pounds either. Just regular build, I'd say. I'm in my early 40s, but usually they say I look younger (30s). I've facial hair. I haven't lost my head hair. I'm not like an "alpha" male, I'm just a regular "masculine" guy. I'm Hispanic (with an accent, been in the USA a few years). I never discuss sexual stuff in grindr or send nudes. not sure if that gives you a better idea. and that answers your question

San Diego.

Haha. I don’t talk about dick size at all. I don’t send nudes. No sex talk at all. i send a shirtless pic. if they ask dick size I only say avg. that’s it.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-gabrielgar111-in-san-diego.127840/page-2#post-1786504 https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-massage-by-gabriel-now-in-dc.143223/

I never mention anything sexual before we meet. Several ask if it’s a sexual massage and I don’t say no. I just reply is a full body relaxing massage. This has worked in my favor... if i’m not into the guy that much I just give a massage with a basic Happy ending. That’s it. It has only happened once. Usually I find them attractive. — I don’t get nude from the get go — All of them kept their underwear at the beginning — I start massaging their backs, arms, hands, head. — then when is time to massage the glutes I remove their underwear. All of them cooperate. So far no one has said no. — as I massage their glutes and inner thighs I casually brush their anus and balls and that’s a fail proof sign of what’s coming. They usually try to brush my dick with their hands. — then I remove my shorts and stay in underwear. I position myself so they can acceses my dick — then they openly grab my cock. —- I do the same and massage the anus. —- I lightly finger them —- as the masseur you can tell how they open their legs and push up the ass, like offering it to you. — there’s some sexual play. — but then I resume the massage... legs... calves... feet. —- i ask them to turn around ... continue the massage —- by this time we are both nude. —- sometimes I lay on top of them pressing them with my body. Several enjoy this. Feeling all my body on top of them. —- sometimes is just he, sometimes oral, or 69, ror anal... it all depends. But so far no one has refused my advances. I let it all unfold naturally and usually they are the ones that make the first move in an open way. I just go with the flow. If someone wants to keep their underwear that’s would be ok with me too. I find giving massages enjoyable and relaxing. I would never pressure someone into more if they don’t give any clues. But I advertise in Grindr. So i really don’t think they want just therapeutic ? we all want a little bit more. ?

Even here around my area there are other guys doing it for free and for a fee. I don’t have it in my profile. I just do it via private message after a few messages are exchanged.

Yeah. The bouncer guy is a fwb. Also the gym rat guy. He comes over. We drink a few beers and then massage time! Do you have any memorable stories to share? A guy asked me if I had toys. I have never used toys during a massage. I think he meant dildos and fleshlight. But I have my mouth and dick. Better than plastic toys. Hehe. I think he didn’t want to be too direct. ??‍♂️

Also, I never offer “sex” as part of the massage. That should flow naturally if it happens. I only offer a free relaxing massage.

A friend that is a therapeutic masseur moved out of state and left his massage table with me. Now I’ve a massage table, and I started offering free massages on Grindr. Having the experience of hiring many masseurs and watching some videos on YouTube I’ve a good idea on how to give a good basic amateur massage. I’ve realized that giving massages is something I enjoy and find relaxing too. I can feel the good energy flowing. This way I’ve met some really handsome guys that enjoy a massage with sensual, erotic elements. The same type of massage we all look for. I’ve had good success. And of course I filter out the guys. I only see guys I find attractive. My massages are free after all. They last 60-90 min. I use biotone. Relaxing music. Candles. Etc. Here are some of the characters I’ve met. 1. The bouncer guy - he is bi... works as a bouncer at a local straight bar. He has a really nice body. Thick and meaty. He’s tall. Very masculine. Thick hairy legs and good sized dick. He’s very vocal and let’s me know what feels good when I’m massaging him. I’ve seen him several times. He enjoys oral. 69. Kissing, rimming and I’ve fucked him a few times. The first time I was in heaven. Never thought I would be able to fuck this guy. Sometimes he’s so horny that he says “let’s skip the massage” and starts kissing me. 2. The gym rat guy. I’ll say this guys is on the top 5 best bodies I’ve seen. He has a military background too. I never thought I would be able to meet him, let alone massage him. He first time I massages him, I was pre-cumming so much, he thought it was lube or lotion. He has the most perfect ass I’ve seen. He is very masculine and correct. A gentleman. As I’m more familiar with him we get to do more stuff. Last time I fucked him after rimming him for like 30 minutes. I never thought he would be a bottom!!! But it just went right in. Wow. Amazing. He kisses too! So enjoyable to be with him. 3. The young guy — this guy is like 23 or so. enjoys receiving massages. Body is nice. He loves sucking me while I massage him. And always asks me if I can cum in his mouth. He wants to see me often, but is not possible sometimes. 4. The young Hispanic. This guy is young. I did my best to give him a good sensual massage. I was not attracted to him in real life. He wanted me to fuck him. He was very insistent. It was a turn off. I declined. But still gave him a HE. 5. The senior student. Met him once. Regular session. HE. Oral. Good kid. He texts me often. He wants to meet again. He has a large dick. And might meet him again soon. Also there are some flakes. that they say they want to meet and then ghost me or flake. Has anyone else offered free massages? Do you have any stories to share?

Any updates?

Why are you keeper of the cookie jar? ?

With a rentmen guy, I pay 180 More because he lives like an hour away and he prefers to stay the night after drinking wine, eating and having fun. He’s a very sweet guy. Glad I found him and I can afford him. He’s not a pro. Just a guy trying to make ends meet. That’s my type. Regular guys. Not gym ? bodies or metrosexuals.

He’s really handsome. but I don’t like to ask for erotic elements. I just want them to flow naturally.... and with minimal massage skills I’ll need to pass.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-sean-formerly-musclehealer-in-san-diego.138709/

Some masseurs incorporate some add ons to the session. I’ve experienced hot stones, showers, scented sleep mask, aromatic candles and vibrating devices. I wonder what else is out there. Maybe feathers? Hot wax? What add ons have you enjoyed the most?

Maybe a hearing aid? They look like that. https://mk0hearingchoict79h1.kinstacdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/behind-the-ear-300x300.png

Any update?

Any updates?

Not bad. If it’s something unique and different.