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Are you aware that you are using a very toxic to the environment machine to participe in the forum? Why don’t you use sign language to communicate with us?

It has happened to me twice. Without me requesting it. Where we shower together after the table massage and they massage my back and legs under the shower. Other times I’ve requested a shower but is just that. A shower together....

Back in San Diego...

Hope he visits SoCal in the future

One escort contacted me several times. He wanted to see me again, and every time he contacted me he said he was “running” a special of 100/hr for “repeat customers”... I knew he wanted me to top him. But it was so obvious and desperate that it was a turnoff. I declined every time. Fortunately he stopped soliciting.

Dick pong

Here https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-musclepup-in-san-diego-new-listing.133707/

Yeah, some others that I remember well are when they do a facial massage, head, face, etc. You know that those are well trained masseurs, or if not trained that they have a good idea of how to give a good massage.

What was the gesture, or comment or thing a masseur did that made you have a positive long lasting impression... ? For me, it would the following... 1. Giving me mints or a little candy after the session 2. Giving me a little bottle of water after the session 3. Having a heated massage table 4. Texting after session thanking for the tip 5. Remembering personal details (things I like, where I am originally from, etc.) after a year of not hiring him 6. A really clean spotless bathroom 7. Ending the session with a shower/massage I remember, in a positive way, the masseurs that have done all the things above.

Even worse. You won’t commit and learn enough to be good at it. You’ll fail.

If you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Based on your questions and comments, at this moment you don’t have what it takes to become a successful escort.

Not everyone has that taste. Luckily there is a market for everyone. And looks can open the door once, but unless you are business savvy, that door will close pretty quickly.

If you want to make a lot of money, escorting is not the best choice. And they make “a lot” of money... but compared to what? There are a lot of jobs that make more money than escorts without the uncertainty and risks. If you do it only for the money is the wrong choice.

He's visiting San Diego area...

Even for an escort that’s in the high side. ? Maybe a typo?

Too bad we can´t see his face

Here is another thread https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-antonio-massage-in-oceanside-ca-north-san-diego.161422/

wow.... the current rates are definitely escort rates.

I feel the same at the moment. Not sure if that'll change in a few years/decades.

Yes... but you cannot buy friendship. You cannot force it. If you need friends, rentmen is not the place. I’m friends with a young provider. He doesn’t advertise anymore but we still meet. And we have even traveled together and I just pay his expenses, he doesn’t charge for “his time” during the travel. He’s a good guy. I enjoy his company. And I want to believe that he also enjoys mine. it doesn’t happen overnight... don’t force it. It should develop organically. And there should be a real personal connection besides the money transaction.

I've only met one masseur with a heated table. We'll in in SoCal it does not really get that cold.

A bathhouse maybe?

And also the opposite is true.

When posting in public forums using your "masseur persona", keep the discussion lighthearted and positive. Do not complaint or attack. Do not be a troll. If you need to complain or post regarding topics that are not positive... use an alias. Do not use your masseur persona. It will hurt your business. Your "masseur persona" is your brand. Take care of it.

I think most of us agree that OP is not really open or receptive to the advice given to him. All the advice given here would cost thousands of dollars if given by a business consultant. I will take some of the knowledge / info given here to apply it to my own business (not escort related).