JackSpar

Does anyone know where can I find a good one in Seattle??

Once you accept your physical limits (or even if you just don't feel like deep-throating) remember you can make a guy's cock feel really, really good in other ways. Figure out what he likes done and do it. Believe me they won't even notice what you are not doing if they cum by what you do. Or it has worked that way For me.

can you please give some examples? ? I really want him to enjoy his time with me

@JackSpar, the gag reflex is a mostly a smooth muscle response to your body's perception it is about to choke and needs to protect itself. As such, it is not under your conscience control. Some people have very sensitive gag reflexes that they never overcome. I don't know if that's you, but you need to know that possibility exists.

 

Read the two articles below. And reread them. They have some good advice.

 

Learning to deepthroat was and is a journey for me. Just like anal sex, anatomical limits exist for oral sex too. You say you have a small mouth. That likely means you have a small throat too, so you must understand your structural limits. You might never be able to deepthroat a thick penis simply because it's not possible for your jaw to open enough to comfortably accommodate deep entry. Please be realistic and accept your physical limits. It's possible to develop very serious jaw issues if you try to force it. Dislocating your TMJ, Trismus, and TMJD are no joke.

 

The best way to begin the process of teaching your body to relax its gag reflex, is for you to be comfortable and in control while you work with someone you trust and are attracted to in a session where you are not rushed, he's very patient, and you're not trying to just shove it in. You must go slowly and work your way up to it. You will gag frequently, but if you go slowly enough, your body will begin to believe it won't choke when a penis is entering your throat. You'll need to learn how to breath through your nose while throating a cock, otherwise your body will gag when it wants oxygen.

 

@WmClarke's advice works for many people. A dildo didn't work for me because it was too impersonal. For me, I needed the incentive of wanting to please the guy I was sucking. Luckily, I had a friend years ago who's girlfriend never sucked because of his size and "it was gross." After many beers one night, he learned guys give much better head usually. Over time, I practiced on his 9" and can deepthroat fairly well now. And now he's happily married to a woman who loves sucking his cock and is as good as me. Or, at least as good as I was a few years ago.

 

But, it all depends on the size, shape, and thickness. Be patient with yourself. Your body did not evolve to have large hard objects thrust repeatedly into your mouth and throat. You have to teach your body that it's ok, safe, and enjoyable.

 

Are you current on all your vaccinations? HPV is a very strong suggestion if you're sucking cocks without condoms because oral and throat cancer rates are climbing rapidly in American men because they think cocksucking is safe. The risks vary, but many STDs and STIs are very easy to catch via oral sex, especially for the bottom.

 

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35376/sex-talk-realness-deep-throating/

https://www.literotica.com/s/deep-throat

Thanks man for your advice. I will read the two articles and I will be realistic and accept my physical limits ☺

Did he want you to deep throat him?

He didn't ask directly but he said that he loves when someone deepthroating him!! So I tried my best .

Get a dildo the same size and practice, practice, practice.

 

Lots of saliva. Don't try to start deep throating right away. Work up to it gradually and let your saliva glands kick into overdrive.

 

Take as much as you can without gagging. Take a deep breath brought your nose since your mouth is full. Then just relax and swallow, like you are eating or drinking. It will slide right down. You will probably only be able to keep it down for a second of two. Slide it out and repeat the process. Try to keep it down longer. As you get better, try sliding it up and down an inch or two while it's in your throat for a few seconds.

 

This is what worked for me. Was able to have an escort throat fuck me with his large 9" recently. I could not have done that two years ago.

WOW ... thanks dude I will try to follow your steps

Hey guys,

I need some help to get rid of the gag reflex!! I saw a hot escort (8in dick) and I was disappointed because I wasn't able to give him a deepthroating. So I will plan to see him again within a month and I want to master the deepthroating before we meet!!

So any any advice or directions that will help me

I have a small mouth and really strong gag reflex.