DirtyHarry

Trying to decide between Jay at 27 or Norik at New Paradise. Anyone seen both and have an opinion? How do they compare, other than price?

Any detailed experiences with Norik? I'd love to hear what his massage is like and if there is anything more. Also curious about any of the new people - Leo, Bruce, Oscar? Feel free to PM me if you feel more comfortable. I've been going to Richie and tried Andrey once (too strong for me) but curious about the others.

I had never been to a sex party before but went to the DadSonBro party in NYC last night and wanted to share my experience. First off I had a really great time. I was extremely nervous but this has been a bucket list thing for me and I knew I could leave at any time if I hated it. I was one of the first people there but within 15-20 minutes of the start time there were probably 20-25 guys there. Although the vast majority were white, basically every age group and body type was there. A few gorgeous built porn-star types certainly stood out, but there were also beautiful bears, daddies, twinks, otters and more. Really something for everyone. I ended up sticking with one really nice guy and we ended up chatting and kissing/cuddling for almost the entire time. He was so sweet and made me feel incredible. Anyway to some up the experience - the thing I loved the most was just how genuinely chill and easygoing everyone was. It was honestly an amazing bonding experience, even though I doubt we'll see each other again. If you have any specific questions PM me, but I would highly recommend if you have any interest.

Anyone here familiar with Sex parties in NYC? I've never been and am pretty nervous and would love to chat a bit with someone more experienced. I've been looking online at some put on by Lodge like 'Workman's Lunch', 'blow buddies' or 'ny jacks' but am open to others. I'm specifically thinking I'm just going to sit back and watch for my first time. I think I'll be too nervous to do anything more Feel free to PM me.

I bit the bullet and tried Richie a few weeks ago. As mentioned by someone else, there is a lot of sensual teasing throughout the massage, but in the end it's strictly legit. I happen to like massages like this so I will definitely go to him again, but I know that's not what most are looking for. Feel free to DM if you want to know any specifics.

Def not a bad day for Mohammad. Very talented but his massage is ruined by lazyness, in my opinion.

I just had a 60 min massage with Mohammed tonight and have sort of mixed feelings on him. I think he's super talented with his hands but he's a bit lazy/repetitive with his movements. The strokes are long and sensual and feel amazing but I feel like he did the same move on each leg for waaaaaaayyyyyy too long. I suppose if I went again I could say something but i'm a very non-confrontational person. The massage was strictly therapeutic, fwiw.

What was Richie's actual massage like? And what does he look like?

I'm the one who started that old thread on voyeurism. I still haven't figured out how to really make it happen. Hiring a couple of escorts is way beyond my budget, and I'm also kind of scared of the idea of getting into a dangerous situation with strangers. I will try looking into the Fetlife site though

I went to Renew Body Wellness yesterday and tried Danny. Overall it was a good experience though he was far less sensual than others have mentioned. Nothing really ventured into teasing but it was still a nice relaxing massage. I am curious to try Frank as he has also been mentioned here.

Just had a massage with Antoni. He is nice if a little awkward - some of that might be the language barrier. His massage was pretty good but not nearly enough oil for me. I asked for more halfway through and he obliged but it was still nowhere near enough. I don't like the feeling of my skin pulling so if I go back to him I'm going to have to be very clear I need much much more.

Sounds exactly what I'm looking for - I will try him soon, thx for reporting back

Please report back whoever you end up seeing!

Bumping to see if there are any new/additional rec's. I'm always looking for an amazing therapeutic massage with sensual elements but I'm not always into the extras. I was seeing Sergey at New Paradise who I thought was amazing but unfortunately he has left

Has anyone been to Bathhouse in Williamsburg? I'm wondering if there are any men only areas? Or even what the shower situation is like?

I've seen Ivan and Sergey. I have no specific memory of what Ivan looks like but I remember him being attractive. Sergey is strong/slim and I'm guessing he might be from Kazakhstan since he looks Asian but has a Russian-sounding accent. He's also very attractive and gives a great legit massage.

Sounds awesome - can you give an idea of what his pricing is like?

Any updates/new experiences with the current line up? I haven't been in a long time...

Are there any spas that have masseurs without extras? I used to like Paradise but it's def not only therapeutic there anymore. I'm more than ok with the massage being sensual but I don't really want the HE.

It says on his profile he does therapeutic and sensual massage - do I need to choose one or is it both? If it's sensual does that mean no extras?

I'm looking for recommendations for the best strictly therapeutic masseur in NYC. Bonus if the massage feels sensual - but I don't really want any extras.

Oh wow. I had no idea. What do you think the best times would be?

I've never been to Spa Castle - are there men only areas? Nude? Cruisy?

OP here- I should have been more clear initially- when I said I ‘made a move’ I didn’t touch the masseur, I touched myself and was told ‘no’. He spent SO much time on the inner thigh that I felt it was clear he wasn’t going to go further but was fine obviously trying to…excite me.

He spent a ton of time on my upper/inner thighs, and after i turned over he basically went right to my upper inner thigh. Let's just say I 'made a move' and was immedietely told to stop. I'm perfectly fine with a legit massage with no extras, but I honestly don't know what he was going for.