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recommend Dieter as well

Another Rob fan. The man is a stud. And very affable.

I always liked, and still like 'Anthony Breioc'. A nice muscular physique, late 30s, the right amount of hair on his chest and legs, a nice crotch and healthy dose of playfulness mixed in with the solid massage experience. Not sure he is currently available to new clients - he sort of comes and goes. But if you can book him, totally worth it.
 
He has been discussed extensively on this forum - just do a search.

And take a close look at pic 6 crotch. Yum.

I like Rob's profile an have had him bookmarked for a while -- love his body, seems nice and smart...I'm just really hesitant to make an appointment with someone whose face I can't see...

I've recommended and continue to recommend Rob whom I think would be a great fit for you and checks most of the boxes (not super tall but otherwise great). He is currently unavailable but when he gets back to town he would be worth seeing.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/muscledmasseur.shtml

Ryan is amazing. I suggest, if you are comfortable to do so, you tell him you are a bit new to this. He will take very good care of you.
If you ever see him available in NYC, Dieter is great. He works between NYC and Berlin. He is more mature and ticks all the boxes for my daddy fetish
http://www.bestgermanmassage.com/gallery.html

Ryan is a board fave. You can't go wrong. I have seen him several times and will be in New York again in two weeks and he is on my short list. He is a surprisingly good masseur. Looks EXACTLY like his pics and is very, very interactive. A KEEPER.
 
Terp

I would recommend this guy-he comes to NYC every month, not sure where you are, but I have used him for years and love him-think he might fit your bill!
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/ryanwest.shtml