I think we can all agree that sexuality is on a spectrum and not black and white. That said, I’m always intrigued to meet a straight guy who enjoys giving men sensual massages. I’ve had a few massages from guys that claim to be straight but are likely on the curious side but I’ve also had one or two massages from guys who I’m convinced are undoubtedly straight and not sexually attracted to men, BUT really enjoy working on other guys.
While getting a massage from one of these guys based in Boston we wound up talking and I started asking questions about why he does what he does. His explanation intrigued me...
He mentioned that it’s not totally for the money but the fact that he’s attracted to the male sexual organ, but nothing beyond that. In other words, no thought of intimacy with another man and no attraction to men in general, but rather the mans goods and only the mans goods. Almost as if being in a position of power (clothed masseur) touching a vulnerable client who is letting it all out is what gives him a rise (pun intended). He went on to mention that he had male to male experiences as a child and attributes the attraction to those experiences.
I’m genuinely interested in this type of stuff and wondering if anyone has similar experiences/stories. What are your thoughts on this?