I'm adding my experiences, not because they're particularly terrible, but because I just got to the bottom of this rabbit hole and I need more. So this is an extended bump, if you will.
File this one under "Too Clueless to Just Leave":
When I first moved to NYC, I went to one of the little massage places that advertised on Craigslist, no clue what it was called. It was basically a first floor apartment way out near 10th or 11th Ave, I think somewhere in the mid-30s, but to be honest, I don't really remember. What I do remember is it was the middle of winter, I went late at night cause it was after work, and the room was freezing! If the heat was on, it was not apparent. The room had a few low massage tables set up (maybe separated by hanging sheets?) and the guy put me on one that was right up against a wall, so he couldn't even walk around the table to massage the other side, he just leaned over and pressed on me. I was draped under a towel which provided the barest refuge from the cold. Massage and HE were meh, and then he wiped me down with a COLD, WET washcloth! ?
Slightly weird:
While booking an apppointment with a masseur, he asked me if I would be interested in a 4-hand massage at a discounted rate with his boyfriend whom he was training. I declined, since I just wanted an easy, straight-forward massage with HE. During the massage, he brings it up again, because his boyfriend is coming over soon and he has to let him into the apartment; he even shows me a picture of his boyfriend on his phone (which I didn't ask to see). I wasn't particularly into the boyfriend and now I'm starting to get annoyed, so I politely decline and we continue with the massage, which he interrupts to go open the door for the boyfriend and quickly get him settled. Whatever, it's fine . After the massage, as I'm dressing, he says "You should meet him," and I want nothing more than to tell him, "No, I'm not interested, buh-bye!" But my mother raised me to be nice, so I agreed and he introduces me to his much-younger boyfriend, and I awkwardly try to make small talk for a moment, while it is clear that this guy has no absolutely interest in engaging with the man who just got JO'd by his boyfriend. Buh-bye!