I always tell my future partner my stats before we meet --- If it is a problem for him I would much rather know before I have prepped. set up the gear, and set aside valuable time - Only to have a caller get to the door, stammer and either say this isn't gonna work or gulp and grind his teeth and fake it as we both have a lousy time. I am a Big Bodied Rolly Polly Bear/Chub and I like my
big furry body - If you don't lots of other guys do!
Good Communication makes for great fornication!!!!!!